Shannon's Journal Discussion Thread, Vol. 5

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Well, I'm concerned it'll be what he spoke of way back.

Changing the program to only target women who ALREADY are attracted to you. Which obviously just ruins everything and defeats the whole purpose of running the sub. If you don't have any girls attracted to you now (whether or not you find them attractive is another problem altogether with this), then nothing happens. Plus, let's face it, the point of running the program is to get girls who are beyond your grasp currently. That's just reality. Because if they were already in your grasp, and attracted to you, and you to them, you wouldn't need the program to begin with. So the logic of changing to this made no sense to me.

Was always very concerned whenever he'd bring up that possible change. I hope that never comes to pass.

Not quite. You’d be surprised how many women are attracted to you but expect you to make the moves. If the guy doesn’t make the move, nothing happens. If the sub helps facilitate those interactions then it’s a net positive and something of a sexual lubricant for making things much easier.

You don’t need to convince women who don’t want you that you’re worthy my friend. Please let that go

^^^Exactly^^^

Catman, the whole sex/attraction game is so much more complex than you can imagine. It's like a dance where each partner is in a continual state of adaptation, counterbalance, and motion. One of the problems here is that you seem to be static...stuck in your own paradigm, which frankly, is a position of inexperience and ignorance (ignorance = lacking knowledge...I'm not saying you're stupid). It seems to me that you've basically trapped yourself in a mental box and you expect "reality" to play by the rules you've established inside that box. It's not gonna happen. As long as you remain in that box, your experiences are never going to change. Shannon has told you this multiple times now.

Some of what I've written might (or might not) sting, but I'm not saying any of this to be mean. I'm actually really wanting to see things change for you. You come across as a really good guy that's hurting inside. I know that DMSI is what you want, but I'm not convinced that it's what you need.