08-26-2020, 04:55 PM
Teaching a willful child is best done by making them want to do whatever you want them to do. I was a willful child with a lot of fear, and I decided I could not read when I was 4 years old. My mother taught me the alphabet and how to sound out words, but I decided it was impossible for me to read.
So she tricked me into reading. She would start a story I really enjoyed, and then when I got good and interested, she would put the book down and go do something else. When I asked her to keep reading she suggested that I might try to read it.
I insisted that I couldn't. So she sat next to me and pretended to have trouble figuring out what a word was, and asked me to sound it out for her. As time went on, I got good enough at it that I was too impatient to wait for her when she would put the book down, so I picked it up and started reading. Then she pointed out to me that... hey... you're reading! Congrats!
Maybe that will help.
So she tricked me into reading. She would start a story I really enjoyed, and then when I got good and interested, she would put the book down and go do something else. When I asked her to keep reading she suggested that I might try to read it.
I insisted that I couldn't. So she sat next to me and pretended to have trouble figuring out what a word was, and asked me to sound it out for her. As time went on, I got good enough at it that I was too impatient to wait for her when she would put the book down, so I picked it up and started reading. Then she pointed out to me that... hey... you're reading! Congrats!
Maybe that will help.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!