07-08-2010, 10:43 AM
Quote: Sadly here in the UK there is a culture of having sex for the sake of sex, which seems to be part of growing up for many girls (generally younger guys don't get the same luxury) Sleeping with people they hardly find attractive just to experience having sex - it is something girls grow out of, but that they actually go through this phase is kind of disconcerting.
Lol, the same thing happens over here in the U.S. my friend. I know several friends and even some girls that do the same thing. They're not bad people by any means it's just...how it is unfortunatley.
Quote:Actually one of the girls - couple of years ago this now - literally raised her voice at me and got angry because I refused to take her back to mine on the first night I met her. After that she didn't want sex for 2 months until we got in to a relationship. She fell for me pretty hard, and I think when a girl is really into you she will do her best to keep hold of you. And if that means delaying sex until she's 'got you' I think she will. Again this isn't something I wouldn't tolerate any more and I'd make it known.
I've actually had something VERY similar happen to me a few months ago. I'd been talking with this girl for around 2-3 months and finally she came right out and declared we were now dating. The thing is, I've seen how she behaves long enough to know that a relationship with her would be unwise so when I turned it down...yeah. I almost blame myself because I used MX297 and A1 around her
Quote:I don't know about Alpha girls but I'm finding more and more girls are being very forward with me. Especially verbally. That is something you'd associate with Alpha girls though. There has definitely been a general increase in attraction from all of the female population, including types of girls who've never been interested in me before in the past. you are right, Alpha girls can be difficult. I actually much prefer the submissive, shy, self-underestimating girls though. I have fantasies about being a white knight and all that.
Shy girls are definitely good to be around in my experience. I notice that they tend to be very deep emotionally but it's hard to understand what they're feeling sometimes.
Alpha girls are pretty straight up usually. If they want you, they'll usually make it know. They make good friends, but whenever they want more than just being "friends" they tend to lash out.