General Dating

[WildFlower]

These answers are pretty much in line with my own.

Now a days, if I have respect for the girl, I won't have sex within the week of meeting her. If I do however, I'd be very turned of by her and not consider her for anything serious. The maximum amount of time I'd give a girl to become comfortable with me is about a month to a month and a half.

I'm in agreement with the 2 weeks to a month, depending on the tempo, for an exclusive but 'non-official' exclusive relationship to develop. Sort of through unwritten rules.

I would not consider having a relationship with anyone till after having sex at least a few times. In the past I have started relationships before having sex, but this was a bad move and a mistake on my part. For whatever reason the two times this has happened the girls have sought to make me wait as long as possible whilst actually having a history of not waiting so long with others. I don't know why they did this, but I wouldn't settle for it again in the future.
An official relationship anything under a month is too soon for me. The max I would leave it is three to four months. I think a month and a half to two months in ideal for me.

Living together would be at least a year to a year and a half. And Marriage would be another year or two after living together.

I think the best way to describe that situation is that at that particular time those girls wanted to "change". This is only a theory, but I suspect that sometimes girls with a history of "giving it up" fast start feeling bad about their behavior and attempt to slow down.

I've also been around girls who were willing to have sex with me in just a week but for other guys they wouldn't hear of it (I wasn't in a relationship either).

One thing I will say though Wildflower is watch out, because with the Alpha set pretty much complete you're going to get a LOT of Alpha girls coming after you and I'm sure you've seen that they can be...difficult to say the least.

I agree with you on that. Sadly here in the UK there is a culture of having sex for the sake of sex, which seems to be part of growing up for many girls (generally younger guys don't get the same luxury) Sleeping with people they hardly find attractive just to experience having sex - it is something girls grow out of, but that they actually go through this phase is kind of disconcerting. I can hardly be one to talk though and this very thread is me wanting to 'change', and by defining my own standards I'm ruling out 'giving it away' to easily.

Actually one of the girls - couple of years ago this now - literally raised her voice at me and got angry because I refused to take her back to mine on the first night I met her. After that she didn't want sex for 2 months until we got in to a relationship. She fell for me pretty hard, and I think when a girl is really into you she will do her best to keep hold of you. And if that means delaying sex until she's 'got you' I think she will. Again this isn't something I wouldn't tolerate any more and I'd make it known.

I don't know about Alpha girls but I'm finding more and more girls are being very forward with me. Especially verbally. That is something you'd associate with Alpha girls though. There has definitely been a general increase in attraction from all of the female population, including types of girls who've never been interested in me before in the past. you are right, Alpha girls can be difficult. I actually much prefer the submissive, shy, self-underestimating girls though. I have fantasies about being a white knight and all that.