06-21-2020, 04:48 AM
Quote:Out of the above, my girlfriend knows that I have felt, feel this stuff around these topics, apart from the big weewee one as I have just never mentioned it for whatever reason that is. We have talked about this stuff, as we are really close and we do have a genuine relationship and it does feel pretty healthy and I do genuinely trust her, love her and want to be with her and I know deeply that she wants to be with me, she trusts me and we see a long term future together, as we are planning to move across the country and move in together as I start a degree in September.
Do you really think you can "genuinely trust her" and you can have these fears and insecurities at the same time? Because I have news for you. Fear does not result from genuine trust.
Give it some time with OF, and you'll start seeing the magnolia unfold.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
