06-19-2020, 09:43 AM
(06-19-2020, 09:10 AM)Shannon Wrote:(06-19-2020, 04:43 AM)Zubrowka Wrote: Alright, I've reflected some more on how well DRS would fit into my current circumstances and will try to describe the situation more clearly to get your input on it Shannon,
I live with my mother and dad. My dad is chill for most time, and so is my mom, but sometimes, often when I have bad days and don't really feel like I have the energy to be social to her, the whole situation spirals downward, and it can also happen if she has a bad experience with something, is stressed, etc - I think she in general have a bit problems regulating her emotions, which probably stems from some kind of trauma. My current course of action is to withdraw myself from the situation, which often work. I have also played LTU5 around my parents, but can't really say that I have seen any noticeable change, as I have seen in myself at least. I'm looking forward to trying out LTU6 but the DRS make me a bit concerned that it will only worsen the relationship with my mother as "throwing back" anything negative that she may project, will cause her to just go spiralling down as she usually does when faced with negative circumstances. Healthy people have the ability to notice what is happening and adjust their behavior to fit the circumstances, but I don't really think she has the emotional capacity to do this, as she is limited by some kind of trauma.
So my questions are:
a) What do you think regarding my assessment of the situation - will DRS make the situation worse or not?
If you have played LTU5 to your parents and did not notice much change, they haven't had enough exposure, or they are resisting it. It would seem most likely that they haven't had enough exposure.
Depending on your age and the specifics of your situation, DRS may or may not make things worse. If you use DRS but they don't, they may react positively or negatively, according to certain variables I can't know the values of. If all of you use it at once, and consistently, it would almost certainly defuse the tensions and improve things, unless you're really young (under 18). That could also cause some issues if they suddenly find they cannot influence and/or manipulate you with their energy anymore. it's not a simple situation, and does not have a binary answer.
Quote:b) If yes - is there any possibility that you will build LTU6 not only with DRS but another version with NDRS?
Thanks.
I am not going to have time to build it at all, never mind twice. I build it again because I am forced to, and for no other reason. And that means I must build it with what settings best benefit the majority.
Alright I get you. I'm soon 30. I think that things become worse when I get engaged in negativity and have a hard time maintaining my boundaries and keep grounded, so I don't think they are so much involved in manipulating me, but that they are needy and when I get involved in that I get upset and anxious and from there it just spirals down.
Ltu6 will probably need less exposure to work, and DRS maybe not be a problem then so it will maybe be a good idea to run it around them.
