06-19-2020, 04:43 AM
Alright, I've reflected some more on how well DRS would fit into my current circumstances and will try to describe the situation more clearly to get your input on it Shannon,
I live with my mother and dad. My dad is chill for most time, and so is my mom, but sometimes, often when I have bad days and don't really feel like I have the energy to be social to her, the whole situation spirals downward, and it can also happen if she has a bad experience with something, is stressed, etc - I think she in general have a bit problems regulating her emotions, which probably stems from some kind of trauma. My current course of action is to withdraw myself from the situation, which often work. I have also played LTU5 around my parents, but can't really say that I have seen any noticeable change, as I have seen in myself at least. I'm looking forward to trying out LTU6 but the DRS make me a bit concerned that it will only worsen the relationship with my mother as "throwing back" anything negative that she may project, will cause her to just go spiralling down as she usually does when faced with negative circumstances. Healthy people have the ability to notice what is happening and adjust their behavior to fit the circumstances, but I don't really think she has the emotional capacity to do this, as she is limited by some kind of trauma.
So my questions are:
a) What do you think regarding my assessment of the situation - will DRS make the situation worse or not?
b) If yes - is there any possibility that you will build LTU6 not only with DRS but another version with NDRS?
Thanks.
I live with my mother and dad. My dad is chill for most time, and so is my mom, but sometimes, often when I have bad days and don't really feel like I have the energy to be social to her, the whole situation spirals downward, and it can also happen if she has a bad experience with something, is stressed, etc - I think she in general have a bit problems regulating her emotions, which probably stems from some kind of trauma. My current course of action is to withdraw myself from the situation, which often work. I have also played LTU5 around my parents, but can't really say that I have seen any noticeable change, as I have seen in myself at least. I'm looking forward to trying out LTU6 but the DRS make me a bit concerned that it will only worsen the relationship with my mother as "throwing back" anything negative that she may project, will cause her to just go spiralling down as she usually does when faced with negative circumstances. Healthy people have the ability to notice what is happening and adjust their behavior to fit the circumstances, but I don't really think she has the emotional capacity to do this, as she is limited by some kind of trauma.
So my questions are:
a) What do you think regarding my assessment of the situation - will DRS make the situation worse or not?
b) If yes - is there any possibility that you will build LTU6 not only with DRS but another version with NDRS?
Thanks.
