General Dating

[WildFlower]

Very good, questions, I'll try to answer them in order from my point of view.

For the 1st one, I'd say as long as I knew the girl for at least a week then I would probably consider sex. The most would be maybe 2 months. One of the reasons why I say at least a week is because for me personally, I've hardly ever been turned on by a woman so much to the point where I considering having sex with her after one day of meeting her.

As for the non-verbal relationship, I usually say (once again) 2 weeks or a month. The reason why is because I (this is just a personal thing) have to see how a girl acts during her period because if I'm going to get knives thrown at me for 3-4 days out of a month then I am NOT putting up with that.

Now, the 3rd question was "would you have an exclusive relationship offer before sex?" Yes. I've had a relationship before where me and the girl didn't have sex but the thing is she had a GREAT personality. Honestly though, I would probably make sure sex was an option, because...well you know.

For official relationships, I'd say the minimum is one month and the max being about 6 months. I think 6 months is still pushing it because at that point you could very well be in the friend zone which is why after about a month it's best to make somekind of move.

Living together? I can't say for sure but I would definitely need to REALLY trust a woman before I move in with her. I don't have a number off the top of my head, but I'll say it would have to be for more than 4 months.

I reserve the right to change any of the above information at any time because I understand that sh!t happens and that rules can (and will) be broken...even if I made them

These answers are pretty much in line with my own.

Now a days, if I have respect for the girl, I won't have sex within the week of meeting her. If I do however, I'd be very turned of by her and not consider her for anything serious. The maximum amount of time I'd give a girl to become comfortable with me is about a month to a month and a half.

I'm in agreement with the 2 weeks to a month, depending on the tempo, for an exclusive but 'non-official' exclusive relationship to develop. Sort of through unwritten rules.

I would not consider having a relationship with anyone till after having sex at least a few times. In the past I have started relationships before having sex, but this was a bad move and a mistake on my part. For whatever reason the two times this has happened the girls have sought to make me wait as long as possible whilst actually having a history of not waiting so long with others. I don't know why they did this, but I wouldn't settle for it again in the future.

An official relationship anything under a month is too soon for me. The max I would leave it is three to four months. I think a month and a half to two months in ideal for me.

Living together would be at least a year to a year and a half. And Marriage would be another year or two after living together.