Shannon's Journal Discussion Thread, Vol. 5

[Tao374]

Hi Shannon, hope you're doing well.

I've lost my girlfriend of 3 years and it's hit me really hard. My number one goal for the next 6 months is to become self sufficient and non-needy, as I've realised over 3 years I became dependent on her for my happiness, and now without her it feels like I'm left with just broken pieces and not sure which way to go.

I've got both AM6 and LTU5. As far as I understand, AM6 is the ultimate for non-neediness, but then LTU5 is obviously more advanced tech. Considering my goal, which would you suggest please? Thank you.

Hi Ichigo,

I'm going through a very similar situation after 5 years.  I ran LTU5 for about 4 months and I believe it helped with the healing process.  However, I still felt needy and it was preventing me from being as happy as I should be.  I started running the AM6 refresher and I'm much less needy, more comfortable in my own skin and understanding that it is fine being single for now.

LTU5 cannot prevent you from being happy.  It can focus you on self improvement, which may require you to do work that results in you being too busy "working at it" to relax and be fully happy in some directions - until you finish the job.  But that depends on how you choose to work on what LTU5 is trying to accomplish.

Hi Shannon,

I may have used a poor choice of words.  LTU5 made me feel like I was in a bubble of happiness, joy and gratitude.  It was great.  However, the problem was I felt the constant need to find a new relationship.  It seemed like the fact that I felt like I needed a new relationship was going to prevent me from having one.  Once I switched to the AM6 refresher after not using it for several years I had a vastly different mind-set after just a few days.  When this program is working I'm having the experience of being completely fine and dependent by myself more than any point in my entire life.  Some days I hit a bit of resistance but the lows seem to be better than the lows I was hitting during my most recent LTU5 run.  It's possible that LTU5 may have been working on something big but I'm happy with the switch.  Having a girl or not having a girl doesn't seem to matter 70-80% of the time right now and that is what I needed.  LTU5 is an amazing program.  I may decide to alternate LUT5 and AM6 refresher every 3 to 6 months with a little time off in between runs.