12-21-2019, 01:10 AM
My life on SE is so much better, it's like night and day compared to my normal mode of being.
On any other sub there is a kind of focus which narrows down my personality to that end. On SE I'm a whole person and making as much - if not more progress on those goals.
Some of this is I expect is to me having a more whole and congruent identity - I have less resistance to what I'm trying to achieve because consciously I will align what I am doing with that identity and values. Public service is a huge value for me due to my upbringing- so just making it rain with cash doesnt work for me unless I close down or ignore a huge part of my identity. Now I'm developing in a direction which will make me money but is aligned with these higher aims as well as with a respect for my health and sanity.
I'm seeing at wor that me being myself is having a huge effect on my environment. Leaders who barely spoke to me are now adopting my approach to things and are invigorated by the passion I can now bring to the table with my value system, I am motivating a large team of people unlike never before. The s0ame goes for my family and extended family which is divided to say the least. I believe the energy I can now bring has begun to heal everyone , open doors that were closed and bring them together. In short - self esteem allows one to practice authenticity, and authenticity is rare enough that others respond to it powerfully.
I think this is why I love MLS and SE. Both of these provide foundational meta skills that allow me to pursue wider goals in a way which is authentic.
On any other sub there is a kind of focus which narrows down my personality to that end. On SE I'm a whole person and making as much - if not more progress on those goals.
Some of this is I expect is to me having a more whole and congruent identity - I have less resistance to what I'm trying to achieve because consciously I will align what I am doing with that identity and values. Public service is a huge value for me due to my upbringing- so just making it rain with cash doesnt work for me unless I close down or ignore a huge part of my identity. Now I'm developing in a direction which will make me money but is aligned with these higher aims as well as with a respect for my health and sanity.
I'm seeing at wor that me being myself is having a huge effect on my environment. Leaders who barely spoke to me are now adopting my approach to things and are invigorated by the passion I can now bring to the table with my value system, I am motivating a large team of people unlike never before. The s0ame goes for my family and extended family which is divided to say the least. I believe the energy I can now bring has begun to heal everyone , open doors that were closed and bring them together. In short - self esteem allows one to practice authenticity, and authenticity is rare enough that others respond to it powerfully.
I think this is why I love MLS and SE. Both of these provide foundational meta skills that allow me to pursue wider goals in a way which is authentic.
Your task is not to seek for Love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
