11-22-2019, 06:12 AM
I would definitely listen to your subconscious on being stuck with her. Sometimes getting what you think you want can be a lot worse than missing it. I wish I’d learned this while I was stuck in a cycle of break up, get back together with my first girlfriend.
As to having some kind of closure talk with her, I would say, don’t do it. Those are only useful if you already have closure inside yourself. Closure is an internal thing and can be had without any input from the other person at all. The thing is, if you don’t already have it when you talk to her, it will just rip the wound open, throw you back into the cycle and take away all the progress you’ve made. Trust me, I know from experience.
As to having some kind of closure talk with her, I would say, don’t do it. Those are only useful if you already have closure inside yourself. Closure is an internal thing and can be had without any input from the other person at all. The thing is, if you don’t already have it when you talk to her, it will just rip the wound open, throw you back into the cycle and take away all the progress you’ve made. Trust me, I know from experience.
