he he... For me, it is a thrill to get naughty in new places. I love doing that. And you don't have to clean. It is especially important if you hook up with a squirter!
of course we have emotions for each other. We have a life long binding by having kids together. but after almost 20 years of being together things changes, interests and difference in sex drive changes.
We do care for each other but not all my needs are fulfilled inside the relation. What are we going to do? breakup and destroy a familial unit which otherwise is perfectly functional and happy? No, in 2019 where pretty much anything is accepted sexually in the society, you try to find some accommodation where everyone is going to be happy.
Technically, the openness is supposed to be two-ways but since my gf has a low libido. It isn't something that she wants to do. but if she did wanted to experiment, that would be fine and I would have no jealousy. I think that it is a question of confidence. If you are confident into your qualities that makes her want to be with you... you won't experience jealousy.
Now on the woman side... Her #1 concern is that I eventually fall in love with one of my concubines and that she lose her #1 spot. You need to reassure her and provide benefits to accept the arrangement by providing good quality non-sexual companionship. I'm doing more effort doing that now that she does the effort to let me experience my desire for sexual adventures...
The open LTR has rules... Some are restraining but it is a very small sacrifice for the well-being of the kids that can live with their 2 parents (I said it on few occasions, the main reason why I needed to do AM6 is that I have been raised by a feminist single mom in a society where the feminine imperative reign) I know from firsthand experience what it does to a kid to not have their 2 parents...
Honestly, once you have tasted this lifestyle, there is pretty much no turning back. Beside raising kids, I see little benefits to be monogamous over being polygamous...
BUT in order to be able to build that life, step #1 is to be alpha. There is no way a beta male could impose that frame to his gf... simply because it is not to her advantage to accept.
The only possible way to do it, is to be the man. Control the frame... and let other accept your way of seeing things...
Stage 2, Day 12 (evening):
I went to the restaurant and it seems like a got a lot of attention from female staff... (more than usual)
At least with 3 of them, it was almost as if I was connecting with them and we were talking to each other as if we have known each other for a long time. This is probably what they call rapport...
of course we have emotions for each other. We have a life long binding by having kids together. but after almost 20 years of being together things changes, interests and difference in sex drive changes.
We do care for each other but not all my needs are fulfilled inside the relation. What are we going to do? breakup and destroy a familial unit which otherwise is perfectly functional and happy? No, in 2019 where pretty much anything is accepted sexually in the society, you try to find some accommodation where everyone is going to be happy.
Technically, the openness is supposed to be two-ways but since my gf has a low libido. It isn't something that she wants to do. but if she did wanted to experiment, that would be fine and I would have no jealousy. I think that it is a question of confidence. If you are confident into your qualities that makes her want to be with you... you won't experience jealousy.
Now on the woman side... Her #1 concern is that I eventually fall in love with one of my concubines and that she lose her #1 spot. You need to reassure her and provide benefits to accept the arrangement by providing good quality non-sexual companionship. I'm doing more effort doing that now that she does the effort to let me experience my desire for sexual adventures...
The open LTR has rules... Some are restraining but it is a very small sacrifice for the well-being of the kids that can live with their 2 parents (I said it on few occasions, the main reason why I needed to do AM6 is that I have been raised by a feminist single mom in a society where the feminine imperative reign) I know from firsthand experience what it does to a kid to not have their 2 parents...
Honestly, once you have tasted this lifestyle, there is pretty much no turning back. Beside raising kids, I see little benefits to be monogamous over being polygamous...
BUT in order to be able to build that life, step #1 is to be alpha. There is no way a beta male could impose that frame to his gf... simply because it is not to her advantage to accept.
The only possible way to do it, is to be the man. Control the frame... and let other accept your way of seeing things...
Stage 2, Day 12 (evening):
I went to the restaurant and it seems like a got a lot of attention from female staff... (more than usual)
At least with 3 of them, it was almost as if I was connecting with them and we were talking to each other as if we have known each other for a long time. This is probably what they call rapport...
