05-27-2012, 04:22 AM
Quote:Third, you assume that just because you do not consciously notice any effect or change, that none happened. If you used the program according to the instructions, a change happened. You may be
consciously inhibiting it, or even subconsciously inhibiting it out of a subconscious fear. If your subconscious believes that something bad will be the result if it cooperates, guess what? It won't cooperate. That something bad could be anything from public ridicule to death. The subconscious is very literal and lacks the sort of logical thinking skills the conscious mind has. So if somehow it got the idea that you will be ridiculed for its cooperation in this direction, it won't cooperate - no matter how preposterous that belief may actually be.
First, how arrogant is it to assume that because you didn't get the result you wanted, that you should conclude that it doesn't work, when there are millions of people every day being affected by subliminals they don't even know they're being exposed to, and made much less well than my own?
Hi Shannon,
1) Last Hope - I had been going through a long phase of failures in my life so far, starting form the age of understanding. Since then there were very less instances where i acted confidently, the repetitive sequence of failures led me to loss of my self - confidence and when someone falls in this kind of state/situation he starts looking for a hope, desperately. when he finds one, all his hopes rest on it which indirectly creates FEAR, (that this should work) which becomes the most difficult, covert enemy of his own self.
2) Expectations/Result - Shannon, Please let me make it very clear that I'm NOT (WILL NEVER) questioning the genuineness of your programs or any fear of control out of that, neither I'm denying the power of subs or the results so many people have got, in fact these encouraging results led me to try subs. But that again just added to FEAR that I should also get the result. Now, this is entirely my minds fault and i take full responsibility for it, I'm not trying to be arrogant, I might have expressed
wrongly or that shouldn't be the way of expression, i was just making a point that - For some reason, I did not get a result .
3) Fear of Failure - Anything which should be taken positively is indirectly being taken negatively by my mind. People are getting results which should be taken positively but then I'm taking it negatively that I should also succeed. I found you, believed in you and your programs with full
devotion but then again this positive note changed into FEAR again ....what if it didn't work on me? while in fact it might have worked my mind is not able to accept it. It's difficult to understand why i have become an enemy of my own self ? Shannon, I'm not fearing any control or anything of that sort, in fact if anyone is ready to take full control of me for a good change to bring in me I'm even ready for that (That was the reason i met 3 different certified professional hypnotherapist while i had a job and even requested them to take control. But now i can't afford to see one as I'm jobless since a long time and short of money). it's just that it had been a long time that i haven't tasted success or
acted confidently that I'm desperate to succeed which is again creating FEAR. It's difficult for me to view things from a neutral stand point.
4) Critical Conscious/placebo - Before i turned to subs I had tried 3 certified professional hypnotherapists but again my conscious or logical side continuously interrupted. So i started looking for some method which would by-pass this critical thinking. In my effort to by-pass this critical/logical side i created my own subs before i found you. And the method of creation was such that i created some 4-5 subs relating to my 4-5 small problems and i randomly choose one, without knowing what that program/sub is for and what would be the outcome/results fearing the detection or interference from my conscious/critical mind (even i renamed all the subs randomly, ambiguously). But, may be, that was my first program and that too created by me or I didn't use it properly for long time, for some reason it didn't give me any result. But that was not the end i still believed in subs. I just mentioned this to let you know how i deceived my own conscious and what is the degree of fear i have for it to deceive it in this way. Shannon, I have to unfortunately mention that more or less I'm in the situation of your grandfather, may be. Because when i used ASC my conscious knew it was for confidence so this alert guard was all time searching for any slightest clue of confidence just to
deny it as a placebo effect. But I'm willing to come out of this situation and the only way would be to use that decisive technique which i used for creating subs myself.
In conclusion in my case it would be-
1) Last Hope + 2)Expectations/Result + 3)Fear of Failure + 4)Critical Conscious/placebo (or knowing what the program is for) = FAILURE (FOR ME ONLY)
Subs offered by you were my last hope which i expected to work which created fear of failure and knowing which program is working on me my critical/logical started denying results. It's all my fault, I'm caught in a web woven by my own self, which I didn't notice.
Quote:you try to overcome whatever is holding you back. It relies on your cooperation. Unless you want to try using the 5th Generation Stop Smoking program, or the 5th Generation weight loss program, which are the only things I could send you a sample of to see if it affects you that is more powerful than the 4th Generation subliminals.
But really, I believe your resistance is most likely based in fear, and for that I cannot help unless you allow the program to affect you.
I want to overcome whatever is holding me back but i don't know what it is and how to overcome it. I'm willing to cooperate for the program to affect me but i don't know how to do it. For your kind information i don't smoke and neither I'm fat. And I think the best way for any sample to be tested to work on me would be to covertly use it without my conscious knowing what it is for and the resultant benefits (my way of using decisive technique). What do you think? How do we go from here? Or can
we try working on my 4-5 small problems which will not take much time to give results looking at the type of problems. I will give the list, you choose any one of them, program it (and if anyone of these already match the program you have you won't even have to program it) and give me without me knowing what it is for?
Thanks and regrets for any thing I might have mentioned which you didn't like.
Shail.
