Day 13:
it was hot and sunny day. I went to the nearby park in bicyle. I need to find something else. I might have seen 2-3 women in an hour. I'm still very uncomfortable to the idea of running after people to initiate conversations. It is simply not my thing.
Also only from a mathematical point of view. If I only see 3 women in an hour. That could take me years to meet someone with whom I get along well. versus a spot where I could meet 100 different women during the same period of time...
I came to the conclusion that I would have to fill my free time with more 'productive' activities. I can tell you that I have been doing bicycle in a nearby park and during weekdays... I haven't seen much people. That activity lack the women volume that I would need to improve myself...
I'm trying out to think about other things to do:
- Regular errand at the grocery and drugstore are among some of my favorite. I frame those as cool adventures where anything can happen
- I can start going in a coffee shop located in an office building complex that is walking distance from my place.
- Shopping mall (if I have something to buy)
- My crossfit gym is opening a Yoga class once a week. For the sake of socializing with the gym women that I already know. This could good as well.
- Take the metro to go take a coffee downtown (not really the destination that matter but more the journey in public transportation)
As a last resort... I could hang out at the closest metro station around 3PM when people start coming back from work. I have a negative association with hanging out in a public spot for the sole purpose of meeting women for casual sex... OTOH, there is nothing wrong wanting to meet women for sex... If I only spent 20-30 minutes to gather 3 phone #s... I should give it a try... If you want something, you need schedule some time to make it happen...
it was hot and sunny day. I went to the nearby park in bicyle. I need to find something else. I might have seen 2-3 women in an hour. I'm still very uncomfortable to the idea of running after people to initiate conversations. It is simply not my thing.
Also only from a mathematical point of view. If I only see 3 women in an hour. That could take me years to meet someone with whom I get along well. versus a spot where I could meet 100 different women during the same period of time...
I came to the conclusion that I would have to fill my free time with more 'productive' activities. I can tell you that I have been doing bicycle in a nearby park and during weekdays... I haven't seen much people. That activity lack the women volume that I would need to improve myself...
I'm trying out to think about other things to do:
- Regular errand at the grocery and drugstore are among some of my favorite. I frame those as cool adventures where anything can happen
- I can start going in a coffee shop located in an office building complex that is walking distance from my place.
- Shopping mall (if I have something to buy)
- My crossfit gym is opening a Yoga class once a week. For the sake of socializing with the gym women that I already know. This could good as well.
- Take the metro to go take a coffee downtown (not really the destination that matter but more the journey in public transportation)
As a last resort... I could hang out at the closest metro station around 3PM when people start coming back from work. I have a negative association with hanging out in a public spot for the sole purpose of meeting women for casual sex... OTOH, there is nothing wrong wanting to meet women for sex... If I only spent 20-30 minutes to gather 3 phone #s... I should give it a try... If you want something, you need schedule some time to make it happen...
