05-11-2019, 02:04 PM
(This post was last modified: 05-11-2019, 02:21 PM by whome.
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(05-11-2019, 09:24 AM)EvolvingPhoenix Wrote: there was a note by my mom saying to get on her computer (everything was up) and snatch up 2 tickets for an event that sells out quickly. And that it was too late. [...] I feel like such a piece of shit for letting mom down on the ticket thing.
I can imagine that this feels bad for you from the inside, but from the outside, this sounds so nuts and completely unreasonable that I felt compelled to comment.
First, your mom left you a note for something super time-sensitive. Did you even know about this, or was this a complete surprise? Then your dad is yelling at you for missing a note?
Honestly, that sounds quite unreasonable. I'm not here to ask you to feel any way other than how you are, as when I was caught in situations like that I didn't know how to see them any other way. But from the outside...
1. Did she ask you in person to handle the ticket situation? (I can't tell from your post.)
2. Did you agree to do so?
Even if both of those have answers of "yes", then your father yelling at you is unreasonable. And if either of them is "no", then it's even more unreasonable that your mom is putting time-critical tasks on you via note.
At the least, this is not reasonable behavior from your father, and possibly from your mother too.
I share the details of my life in my posts to help in the understanding of the effects of the subliminals I use. I am only open to advice that relates to the use of the subliminals.
