05-01-2019, 03:57 AM
I had very low self esteem when I was a teenager. I moved to a rich neighborhood where I realized how poorly I used to carry myself compared to the rich kids my age who walked around like they owned the place. I had never had that kind of confidence, but I did work hard to at least improve my posture and keep my chin up. That is something that you can do, just remind yourself to keep your chin up. Do it around your house and it will be easier to do when out in public. The subs do help you to improve your body language. While SO and I haven't noticed it in ourselves, we do notice it in each other that we are carrying ourselves much better, and people respond differently to us because of it. It's great that you have the right perspective to realize that your negative thinking needs to change in order for you to move forward. You have the right attitude, man, it's only a matter of time before things turn around.
