04-15-2019, 12:52 AM
I disagree with your projection EP.
Life has been hard.
Things have not been easy.
What I hear are assumptions that even if you try to change, nothing will. Mentally and emotionally, this goes one way. Downhill, to bad spots.
Projecting past experiences into the future will only take you down. Do you KNOW life will suck in the future? Do you KNOW you won't change?
I'll shift the focus now. Taking responsibility for one's life means being honest with one's self. I still am doing this.
Are you just scared and feeling incompetent to handle change?
Do you fear handling all the imagined pain and baggage from your past?
Are you possibly afraid to be responsible for all of this?
Are you terrified of failing in this endeavor?
My answer to all these questions 2 years back was YES. But I still had on my denial glasses which fought hard to keep me from seeing anything good.
Those are heavy questions for anyone from an abusive/neglected background to handle. EP,
You don't need to be perfect today.
You don't need to be perfect today.
You don't need to be perfect today.
I came from a painful family, and when I got into healing, therapy, and 12 step meetings, I wanted to be better NOW. TODAY! I was not nice to myself, as shame and fear were the only tools used by my mom.
I will also say this clearly. Subliminals have been the FASTEST, easiest, and most effective healing tool I've ever used during my 25+ years seeking relief. I still run E2 myself occasionally, as it has a major feature (IMO) which hides the pain being dealt with from your conscious mind. The stress relief in it is a major reason too. The other modules like Overcome the Victim Mentality and Positive Thinking, Positive Attitude showed up later in my run, and they're actual lifesavers. E2 is one of the most helpful and easy subs one can own and use.
Trust the process. Trust yourself on it. It WILL get better.
And be nice to you today. One small act of kindness to yourself today is STILL a success
Life has been hard.
Things have not been easy.
What I hear are assumptions that even if you try to change, nothing will. Mentally and emotionally, this goes one way. Downhill, to bad spots.
Projecting past experiences into the future will only take you down. Do you KNOW life will suck in the future? Do you KNOW you won't change?
I'll shift the focus now. Taking responsibility for one's life means being honest with one's self. I still am doing this.
Are you just scared and feeling incompetent to handle change?
Do you fear handling all the imagined pain and baggage from your past?
Are you possibly afraid to be responsible for all of this?
Are you terrified of failing in this endeavor?
My answer to all these questions 2 years back was YES. But I still had on my denial glasses which fought hard to keep me from seeing anything good.
Those are heavy questions for anyone from an abusive/neglected background to handle. EP,
You don't need to be perfect today.
You don't need to be perfect today.
You don't need to be perfect today.
I came from a painful family, and when I got into healing, therapy, and 12 step meetings, I wanted to be better NOW. TODAY! I was not nice to myself, as shame and fear were the only tools used by my mom.
I will also say this clearly. Subliminals have been the FASTEST, easiest, and most effective healing tool I've ever used during my 25+ years seeking relief. I still run E2 myself occasionally, as it has a major feature (IMO) which hides the pain being dealt with from your conscious mind. The stress relief in it is a major reason too. The other modules like Overcome the Victim Mentality and Positive Thinking, Positive Attitude showed up later in my run, and they're actual lifesavers. E2 is one of the most helpful and easy subs one can own and use.
Trust the process. Trust yourself on it. It WILL get better.
And be nice to you today. One small act of kindness to yourself today is STILL a success
I want to be FREE!
