Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub?

[Shannon]

The subconscious does not use porn as a measure of what is perfect for you. It knows that what is perfect for you is your compliment in the direction you are looking. The compliment is what completes you.

Could you explain a little more what that means? Sorry if I'm a little slow and not getting it. Although I think I'm sort of getting it, I'm not sure. Could you explain it a little more?

When you ask for something that is perfect for you, you are asking for that which completes the part that you provide. It is the compliment to you, and it results in a whole.

When you ask for a perfect friend with benefits, your perfect friend with benefits will be perfect for you. There is no maybe, sometimes, partially. In the direction of what you are asking for, they will be exactly what you want and need to have. They will be perfect for you. They will provide what you do not to create a balanced equation and make a whole from the parts.

People get hung up on "Oh, but perfect isn't possible, it isn't reasonable, it isn't realistic. He must mean close to perfect." No. Perfect is possible, is reasonable, is realistic, as long as you make it happen in the right way. Perfect is considered so far out there because it is so unlikely to be encountered randomly, but we aren't working with random in a manifestation. We are asking for X and then making the right actions happen behind the scenes for X to come about.

It's pretty black and white. If it's not a perfect response that fulfills the desired and requested goal, then it's not a manifestation if the requested and desired goal specifies that the result must be perfect.

And the perfect response will be the puzzle piece that fills the hole (request) exactly (perfectly) for whatever was requested.

And I don't need to know what the perfect FWB is for me in order to get it, right?

You don't need to know consciously. You already automatically know, subconsciously.

I can assure you that at first I was really afraid to try to use the "perfect lover" as the goal phrasing, because I wanted to consciously control the process. But I needed to use that phrasing because every time I tried to consciously specify the goals, I left something out. The reason for using that phrasing, "perfect", is so that the subconscious can take control and do it for you, better than your conscious mind could ever hope to.