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Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - EvolvingPhoenix - 02-06-2019
Hey everybody. I'm currently already using the Housework Motivation and Overcoming Procrastination subs, but I was thinking of using the friends with benefits sub as my next sub so I could make a new close friend and so I could get some on the side.
I was wondering if anybody has used the FWB sub before and what your experiences are?
Has anybody found success with this sub?
Would I be able to get close to this friend, even if the relationship isn't "romantic"?
Wouldn't mind if I got a new best friend out of it. My social circle is dwindling for various reasons.
What were the relationships like for those of you who have tried it?
How long did it take for you to meet your perfect FWB?
Would you describe the FWB you attracted as being your "perfect" FWB?
Is it possible to attract more than one FWB into one's life using this program? I've heard the sexual lover program sometimes attracts more than one sexual lover. Does it work the same way with the FWB AYP sub?
To Shannon:
I know that one one of the AYP subs, it says being more active helps produce results (From the AYP Sexual Lover sub description: "This program is designed to bring about the intended results without requiring any effort on your part. The more effort you put into it, however, the faster and more easily you will get results in most cases – but the program is designed to work without any efforts from you.") but you say people have a tendency to get in the way by being too active (" Too many people screwing up the results by trying too hard to consciously interfere."), so I'm a bit confused as to how active/passive one should be when using it. How active should one be when trying to get results with the sub? Should one just "set it and forget it" and live their life like normal without thinking about it? OR should one be more proactive in trying to find a good FWB? I wouldn't mind just sitting back and letting the subliminal do it's thing.
How many good testimonials have you seen regarding this sub?
Did the friend you made it for get what he wanted out of the sub?
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - Shannon - 02-06-2019
Quote:To Shannon:
I know that one one of the AYP subs, it says being more active helps produce results (From the AYP Sexual Lover sub description: "This program is designed to bring about the intended results without requiring any effort on your part. The more effort you put into it, however, the faster and more easily you will get results in most cases – but the program is designed to work without any efforts from you.") but you say people have a tendency to get in the way by being too active (" Too many people screwing up the results by trying too hard to consciously interfere."), so I'm a bit confused as to how active/passive one should be when using it. How active should one be when trying to get results with the sub? Should one just "set it and forget it" and live their life like normal without thinking about it? OR should one be more proactive in trying to find a good FWB? I wouldn't mind just sitting back and letting the subliminal do it's thing.
If you have to ask that question then you are best off using the passive "set it and forget it" method. The active part requires that you have the ability to actively and consciously work on it, while "setting it and forgetting it". Few people can set it and forget it even passively, apparently.
Quote:How many good testimonials have you seen regarding this sub?
I don't remember, honestly. It's been 0 to 2, but I am not really in a good place to use my long term memory, given my exhaustion level right now.
Quote:Did the friend you made it for get what he wanted out of the sub?
If memory serves, he got in his own way and tried to force the program to do things his way instead of letting it do it's thing and relaxing.
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - EvolvingPhoenix - 02-06-2019
"Few people can set it and forget it even passively, apparently." Really? I'd have thought just doing nothing would be the easiest thing in the world?
Anyway, so I take it not much is known about this sub then?
If I use it as my next sub after I'm done with these, do you think it's likely to work? Or should I just save my time/money and use a different sub?
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - EvolvingPhoenix - 02-06-2019
I just read MasterEnki's AYPFWB journal and it doesn't look too promising. It looks like the FWB sub doesn't work.
Has anybody used it and gotten their perfect FWB out of it?
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - MasterEnki - 02-06-2019
(02-06-2019, 05:23 PM)EvolvingPhoenix Wrote: I just read MasterEnki's AYPFWB journal and it doesn't look too promising. It looks like the FWB sub doesn't work.
Has anybody used it and gotten their perfect FWB out of it?
Several others people got great results from AYP / MYP.
It’s appears with AYP / MYP subs that YMMV.
Edit: And, yeah, anyone who has success stories with AYP / MYP, please share them
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - Paul1131 - 02-06-2019
I used find your perfect job in 5G twice and in very short order (month and a half to a couple of months) was hired for what I thought was my perfect job. It does work, but I think that I was consciously trying to “steer” it too much and got less than optimum results while still having the basic mechanism work. That or they were perfect for me, but I wasn’t ready, or self sabotage or something. The key here, and what a lot of people can’t do is you listen to it as much as possible, but don’t think about what your listening to. With the ones that manifest a person, you’ll supposedly just trip on that person within a few months.
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - EvolvingPhoenix - 02-06-2019
(02-06-2019, 06:29 PM)Paul1131 Wrote: I used find your perfect job in 5G twice and in very short order (month and a half to a couple of months) was hired for what I thought was my perfect job. It does work, but I think that I was consciously trying to “steer” it too much and got less than optimum results while still having the basic mechanism work. That or they were perfect for me, but I wasn’t ready, or self sabotage or something. The key here, and what a lot of people can’t do is you listen to it as much as possible, but don’t think about what your listening to. With the ones that manifest a person, you’ll supposedly just trip on that person within a few months.
So if I buy AYPFWB and I just play it every day w/o thinking about it, it should work?
Or does the FWB sub not work as well as the AYP Lover or Sexual Lover subs?
(02-06-2019, 06:04 PM)MasterEnki Wrote: Several others people got great results from AYP / MYP.
It’s appears with AYP / MYP subs that YMMV.
Do you think the FWB sub has as much chance to work as the sexual lover and romantic lover subs?
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - MasterEnki - 02-06-2019
I think they all have a similar chance to work. I reckon it depends on individual circumstances though.
Another thing that is common with AYP is ‘almost manifestations’. I got a few ‘almosts’ and so did others (there are several AYP journals around the forum).
One woman has mentioned several times that she wants to get sexual with me, but her circumstances prevent anything from happening.
Another woman, who is a longterm acquaintance, suddenly started making out with me regularly, and seems really interested in me lately. She made the moves on me. However, no sex has occurred yet.
A few other women at work that used to ignore me are now super friendly towards me also.
A few other examples of ‘almost manifestations’:
https://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-Women-s-Journals-AYP-Boyfriend-Journal-?pid=109167#pid109167
https://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-Men-s-Journals-Attract-Your-Perfect-Naturally-Blonde-Romantic-Love-4G-kind-of-journal-?pid=168096#pid168096
https://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-Men-s-Journals-Attract-your-perfect-submissive-sexual-lover-?pid=36187#pid36187
https://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-Men-s-Product-Discussion-AYP-Subs-and-circumstances-Q-For-Shannon-?pid=175111#pid175111
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - EvolvingPhoenix - 02-06-2019
(02-06-2019, 07:42 PM)MasterEnki Wrote: I think they all have a similar chance to work. I reckon it depends on individual circumstances though.
Another thing that is common with AYP is ‘almost manifestations’. I got a few ‘almosts’ and so did others (there are several AYP journals around the forum).
One woman has mentioned several times that she wants to get sexual with me, but her circumstances prevent anything from happening.
Another woman, who is a longterm acquaintance, suddenly started making out with me regularly, and seems really interested in me lately. She made the moves on me. However, no sex has occurred yet.
A few other women at work that used to ignore me are now super friendly towards me also.
Do you think that the reason you produced "Almost" results may have been because you had no idea what a perfect FWB would be for you?
Or do you think there was another reason for the "almost" results?
What do you think it was?
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - MasterEnki - 02-06-2019
Quote:Do you think that the reason you produced “Almost” results may have been because you had no idea what a perfect FWB would be for you?
That’s quite possible.
I have no sexual experience to draw upon, so my best guess is that my subconscious may be confused as to what a ‘perfect FWB’ would be like for me.
I can imagine that my subconscious may draw on non-sexual qualities though, and probably all the porn I’ve watched in the past.
I have no idea (consciously) what my ‘perfect for me’ FWB would be like? What qualities she has? What she would look like? Etc.
Quote:Or do you think there was another reason for the “almost” results?
I figure that maybe they are ‘secondary manifestations’ meant to get me ready for a sexual FWB.
45yo woman, who makes out with me regularly, has helped me heaps for getting comfortable with physical intimacy and being close to a woman, getting confidence with women, feeling worthy / wanted by women, etc.
Quote:What do you think it was?
Not sure.
AFAIK, the conscious mind can see the ‘dots’, but not how they connect up (the subconscious sees that).
Like, maybe the ‘almosts’ will lead to the main manifestation and/or be directly connected to the main manifestation somehow.
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - EvolvingPhoenix - 02-06-2019
Do you think if I use the FWB sub, it will work for me?
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - 4Kingdoms - 02-06-2019
https://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-Men-s-Journals-Manifest-Your-Perfect-Sexual-Lover-5G-Results-
It did worked for me. Like Paul1131 said... you have to play it and not expect results.
I noticed as I was driving, I would turn left when I meant to turn right. Or be drawn towards a store that I never been inside. It's like you are on autopilot and then you arrive at your destination and think "wtf?" "How did I get here??"
Because a fwb is a vague request, you may end up with more than one!!
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - MasterEnki - 02-06-2019
(02-06-2019, 08:28 PM)EvolvingPhoenix Wrote: Do you think if I use the FWB sub, it will work for me?
Depends.
The guys that have had success with AYP / MYP, all seem to have had a decent amount of sexual experience.
I have zero sexual experience, and it hasn’t fully worked for me yet.
I would say that sexual experience may be a factor.
In theory, it should work for anyone, as long as they execute the sub, give it enough time and she exists.
Apparently, some personality types are much better at manifestation, than others. The IDGAF / ‘set and forget’ types are supposedly meant to have easier success with manifestation.
Shannon says some great stuff about AYP in this thread:
https://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-Men-s-Journals-In3deeps-s-Quest-to-Attract-His-Perfect-Wife-?pid=72937#pid72937
It would seem that the ‘proof is in the pudding’. Several people had success with AYP, others didn’t.
The only way to find out for certain is to dive straight in
RE: Has anyone tried the Friends With Benefits sub? - EvolvingPhoenix - 02-06-2019
If sexual experience is important, that's not good for me. If the main issue is setting and forgetting it, I imagine I'll do well. Then again, who knows? Maybe I'll have a harder time of it than most.