11-26-2018, 08:08 AM
So would you say that caffeine is helping your fearful side derail the state shifting in USLM3?
As to your daughter, I suggest that you explain to her what's going on inside you. Communicate your hopes and fears to her, if she is old enough to understand. I'd say that would probably be 7-8 years old or older, depending on how you frame it. Tell her that sometimes, you're afraid to say the wrong thing and screw up and push her away, and in times like that, you notice you get distant, which is not the thing you want.
Let her know you love and value her, and that you're trying to find the right way to make a good relationship with her. Ask for her help in that.
As to your daughter, I suggest that you explain to her what's going on inside you. Communicate your hopes and fears to her, if she is old enough to understand. I'd say that would probably be 7-8 years old or older, depending on how you frame it. Tell her that sometimes, you're afraid to say the wrong thing and screw up and push her away, and in times like that, you notice you get distant, which is not the thing you want.
Let her know you love and value her, and that you're trying to find the right way to make a good relationship with her. Ask for her help in that.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
