10-13-2018, 03:06 PM
(10-13-2018, 05:21 AM)RTBoss Wrote: All's fair in love and war. So what if she has a boyfriend - is he your friend? If they were engaged, or married, that'd be different. But just a boyfriend? Go get her, tiger.
You have got a good point and I have never really thought of it like that. I suppose I like to treat those as I wish to be treated.
There is no right or wrong way to view this so I could adapt your way of seeing this.
I think dating and relationships in England might be different compared to the USA.
A lot of people don't get engaged nor married and still move in together and start a family together, so being boyfriend and girlfriend is not just "dating".
If she is in love with the guy and values their relationship, she wouldn't allow anything to happen anyway. So don't want to get my hopes up, but I will naturally flirt with her and see what happens.
I want to flirt much more with the 20 year old girl at my English class when I see her. I didn't go last Tuesday and she Whatsapped me asking why I did not come into class and that she hopes I am ok.
I was thinking...Yeah you better miss me! Lol.
I don't message her much but She's different, indeed. Sometimes she don't message back for days at a time. It don't bother me now, as I just see that is how she is. I also make sure I don't ask her questions in my messages so its not like she has to get back to me anyway.
It's quite funny her responding to a message 3 days later. It'S kinda like speaking with someone in real life physically and then replying to what they said 4 days later lol, it would be very strange.
I would love to know what is going on in her mind/life to understand our if curiosity. When I make an effort to speak to her in person she opens up and is happy to talk with me. She even looked at my student I.D and said I looked cute in the photo. And she said we should get high together etc.
There just seems like mixed messages or maybe not, maybe she unjust shy and this is how she is?
