My EPHRA 2.0 Journal

[JCasterlin]

Update - another thing I chose to do was go back & eliminate my social media accounts. I have been debating doing it for a while & finally said " f*** it". I'm starting a 2nd job here soon so I'm not going to have the time as it is

Yep I waste too much time on facebook sometimes, and it's not doing anything productive. The way it's designed is to get you going back just checking if you got liked and such, and it's definately not helping us with not caring what people think.

Shame cos it's useful to find events and also message friends so I don't want to delete it completely.

I felt that way at first but then I realized that for whatever reason 99% of the time I'm the one messaging people. I get people have lives. Especially those with children , families, or other obligations . I feel it comes across as needy & desperate. The exact opposite of what I'm going for