02-21-2012, 01:43 AM
Thanks Shannon,
Ill add those into it. Appreciate the feedback.
Roy its a complicated story but ill try keep it short.
When I first started seeing my ex I didn't want to have a relationship for various reasons insecurities most likely one of them. So we were having sex for quite a while before she decided to go and get married but we continued to have sex while she was married. She then fell pregnant so I did the math and figured out we would have most likely slept together most nights around that time (Silly me didn't wear protection) so anyway she decided to put the child under the husbands name. So the child is born and we have this connection that I haven't had with any other kid and she looks a lot like me (Still does). I then decide I want a relationship with her and so she leaves her husband for me. This was 3 years ago I raise the kid as my own and we get along really well. Unfortunately she doesn't agree to a paternity test and in my country its next to impossible to get one as a potential father unless you are listed on the birth certificate. Come back to today I can she the child if I want but at the same time have to deal with my insecurities that my ex brings out in me after I have seen her.
Messy I know but hope it all makes sense
Ill add those into it. Appreciate the feedback.
Roy its a complicated story but ill try keep it short.
When I first started seeing my ex I didn't want to have a relationship for various reasons insecurities most likely one of them. So we were having sex for quite a while before she decided to go and get married but we continued to have sex while she was married. She then fell pregnant so I did the math and figured out we would have most likely slept together most nights around that time (Silly me didn't wear protection) so anyway she decided to put the child under the husbands name. So the child is born and we have this connection that I haven't had with any other kid and she looks a lot like me (Still does). I then decide I want a relationship with her and so she leaves her husband for me. This was 3 years ago I raise the kid as my own and we get along really well. Unfortunately she doesn't agree to a paternity test and in my country its next to impossible to get one as a potential father unless you are listed on the birth certificate. Come back to today I can she the child if I want but at the same time have to deal with my insecurities that my ex brings out in me after I have seen her.
Messy I know but hope it all makes sense
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