Did another approach today, I was at Red Robins and after I was done eating I went up the the Hostess that was our hostess as she was at the front of the restaurant by the doors with like 12 people there waiting to be hosted by.
I told her "I don't want to be wierd or anything but I thought you were pretty and I wanted to come say hi And basically it was hard to talk because she was working but I said I don't want to get you in trouble (by talking to her here) but why don't i grab your number and we can chill.
She said she had a boyfriend and her cheeks and face was bright red and she was a little shy, I said " do you really?" She said "Yeah three years"
Then we both smiled and I said good for you and I left. It was a nice experience.
My anxiety is DRAMATICALLY down now. I could never have done this in the past, especially after waiting so long to do it. I wanted to approach her from the moment I got there but didn't til after I ate.
oh its also important to note i tried calling one chick today but she didn't answer.
I told her "I don't want to be wierd or anything but I thought you were pretty and I wanted to come say hi And basically it was hard to talk because she was working but I said I don't want to get you in trouble (by talking to her here) but why don't i grab your number and we can chill.
She said she had a boyfriend and her cheeks and face was bright red and she was a little shy, I said " do you really?" She said "Yeah three years"
Then we both smiled and I said good for you and I left. It was a nice experience.
My anxiety is DRAMATICALLY down now. I could never have done this in the past, especially after waiting so long to do it. I wanted to approach her from the moment I got there but didn't til after I ate.
oh its also important to note i tried calling one chick today but she didn't answer.
