(11-24-2017, 06:23 PM)Sully Wrote:(11-24-2017, 10:27 AM)Raykon Wrote:(11-23-2017, 10:20 PM)Illusive Man Wrote: Do you think it was the anxiety relief or DMSI for your approaches recently?
I feel like DMSI gave me the motivation/desire/drive, but anxiety relief is the reason im actually approaching now. because the anxiety is low enough /diminished enough to not get in my way.
so ARA = amazing so far
Sounds like something I need. I want to approach badly but I feel so sick to the stomach even thinking about it. I've tried doing it drunk and even then the anxiety is so heavy I don't bother. It's so sad too as there are guys who can jump into war, sacrifice their life, defend, jump into a building, etc without hesitation and I can't approach.
How many loops of ARA do you do?
I used 6-7 loops at night and use it randomly during the day for few loops.
and no worrys man you will get there. My first approach i stuttered and fumbled so bad the chick felt bad for me. I was so embarressed. But a few approaches later I had already improved dramatically.
U just need to develope a style/plan that works well for your personality.
For my personality direct is best and I just be honest. I tell them what im thinking, my approach is usually, "I was walking and I saw you and i thought you were cute and wanted to meet you, hi im raykon"
If u get the eye contact strong seem confident and or relaxed.
it should go well.
anxiety is the only thing that will get in the way so yeah i think you would benefit from this sub.
also, allot of those guys like in the military im sure cant approach either.
