10-15-2017, 12:11 PM
Not pleased by the past week's forum contention, but I've reminded myself that this is a commercial product support site, not a Utopian society.
So, back to potentially product-related observations. Ahead of last weekend, my new esthetician raved even more about my skin than my previous one had, not that she'd seen it beforehand. Last weekend itself was spent with the FWB, so no crowd-testing of DMSI-resumed-after-UD. But the FWB did reveal that a prior worry on her side was not a worry about me (as I'd originally understood it to be) but a worry for my happiness, which put an entirely different spin on the whole thing and allowed me to mitigate that concern. (Bottom line: increased clarity of others' motivation.)
This weekend, actual crowd-testing happened for DMSI-resumed-after-UD. And, thanks to more increased clarity of others' motivation, I think that I may have a stronger sense of why the aura-sourced interest has been so situation-limited. Previously, the aura resulted in "You're awesome, and I won't stop touching you, flirting with you, or distracting you away from others. That turns you on, right?" Which helped them to seduce me. Now, it's "You're awesome, and I won't stop touching you, flirting with you, or distracting you from others, but we have no future, so I'm really just wasting your time and mine while keeping others away from you. That turns you on, right?" Which doesn't at all, thanks to the extra TMI, but it tells me more about what's really going on in their heads. Strangely, when both options are available, I prefer being seduced by someone who actually wants me, not by someone who just wants to seduce me. Silly me.
Switching to track B again.
So, back to potentially product-related observations. Ahead of last weekend, my new esthetician raved even more about my skin than my previous one had, not that she'd seen it beforehand. Last weekend itself was spent with the FWB, so no crowd-testing of DMSI-resumed-after-UD. But the FWB did reveal that a prior worry on her side was not a worry about me (as I'd originally understood it to be) but a worry for my happiness, which put an entirely different spin on the whole thing and allowed me to mitigate that concern. (Bottom line: increased clarity of others' motivation.)
This weekend, actual crowd-testing happened for DMSI-resumed-after-UD. And, thanks to more increased clarity of others' motivation, I think that I may have a stronger sense of why the aura-sourced interest has been so situation-limited. Previously, the aura resulted in "You're awesome, and I won't stop touching you, flirting with you, or distracting you away from others. That turns you on, right?" Which helped them to seduce me. Now, it's "You're awesome, and I won't stop touching you, flirting with you, or distracting you from others, but we have no future, so I'm really just wasting your time and mine while keeping others away from you. That turns you on, right?" Which doesn't at all, thanks to the extra TMI, but it tells me more about what's really going on in their heads. Strangely, when both options are available, I prefer being seduced by someone who actually wants me, not by someone who just wants to seduce me. Silly me.
Switching to track B again.
