(10-09-2017, 12:41 AM)Dr. Strangelove Wrote:(10-08-2017, 07:03 PM)Purple Jade Wrote:(10-08-2017, 06:26 AM)Adrien Silva Wrote: describe your perfect man?
Physical stuff - tall, slim and an infectious smile
Mental side - intelligent, ambitious, driven, hungry for power, preferably outsmart me.
Sexually - totally into me, crazy about my body. Treat his and my sexual pleasure equally.
A bit high level, but that’s all I can come up with. Never really put a “perfect man” into words.
Hey PJ, if you’re game, have a go at putting this to paper, too?
List 10 to 15 things, as specific as you want to be (i.e. down to freckles or other nitty gritty), that he absolutely must have, and 10 things that you don’t want in a man – like you’re mail ordering a guy custom-made just for yourself. Keep the list handy and review it every day. Imagine you’re already with this guy, perhaps write him a love letter. I’ve tried this myself before, and it’s uncanny how it worked out. Guess you get what you focus on life. Just a suggestion.
I did something similar before. Thought, instead of writting it down I was visualizing each trait I wanted my perfect partner to have. I meditated on that for maybe a couple of weeks, along with a mantra, but got tired and moved on to something else.
About 2 months after that I met a female friend online and with the time she told me that she felt magnetically pulled toward me since the first day. The more I learned about her, the more I noticed how she was matching perfectly the idea of the "perfect" partner I had. Physically, mentally and spiritually even. 100% what I was after.
Sadly thought, I felt like I got tricked (by the Universe, my subconscious ?) because she isn't physically here.
Now I use that method on other areas of my life. Though I found that changing myself with this method is really hard. Probably because of subconscious blockages.
I suggest you to have a go at it too.
