10-04-2017, 05:19 PM
I'm having another realization, which builds on something I've already realized:
(what I already knew): you're in the driver's seat. You can't expect other people to know the answers, and you can't expect to live any substantive life by listening to other people's answers on life.
(what I realized on that basis): because of this, there is no perfect framework for living your life; you have to fashion on based on pragmatism. But, you will miss opportunities just because that's how life works. You will have missed connections, loose ends, small conflicts and small ongoing relationships that come in and out of your life.
With subliminals, the same things have been happening in my life year after year. Work, girls, friends, hobbies. but my relationship to them has been continually shifting.
I will have to come to grips with the fact that I can't develop the ideal framework without first acting, making mistakes, and learning from them, in ALL elements of my life.
I also have to deal with ambiguity and uncertainty (not anxiety, but just the feeling of not being sure).
Other people want others to have the answers, too.
I've probably heard these words before, but, as internal realizations, they are more powerful.
(what I already knew): you're in the driver's seat. You can't expect other people to know the answers, and you can't expect to live any substantive life by listening to other people's answers on life.
(what I realized on that basis): because of this, there is no perfect framework for living your life; you have to fashion on based on pragmatism. But, you will miss opportunities just because that's how life works. You will have missed connections, loose ends, small conflicts and small ongoing relationships that come in and out of your life.
With subliminals, the same things have been happening in my life year after year. Work, girls, friends, hobbies. but my relationship to them has been continually shifting.
I will have to come to grips with the fact that I can't develop the ideal framework without first acting, making mistakes, and learning from them, in ALL elements of my life.
I also have to deal with ambiguity and uncertainty (not anxiety, but just the feeling of not being sure).
Other people want others to have the answers, too.
I've probably heard these words before, but, as internal realizations, they are more powerful.
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