10-01-2017, 09:07 AM
(10-01-2017, 08:28 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I like your analogy. It definitely describes what is going on with women ime because I've had girls come onto me and then it's like "ok... who's seducing?" and it becomes a stalemate.
HOWEVER, I don't agree with your "seducer OR seduced" theory. Mostly because I do sales and, in my experience, it works more like this:
Unless I'm misreading, you seem to be making my point anyhow. I sell co-workers on ideas constantly, dangling rewards until they're convinced that saying yes benefits them or was their idea. That's still seducing them into wanting what you want them to want, which is exactly what the seduction scene/movie always is. The reverse would be customers coming out to your car and trying to convince you to sell them windows, with you reluctant and needing to be convinced to see the benefit to you in selling them your product, with them trying to convince you that selling the windows was your idea.
When a woman approaches me, she has to justify to me why she's better than other options, or she's not seducing me at all. Her goal is to get me to want to say yes, not begrudgingly say yes, and I don't say yes solely because an attractive woman wants me to.
But, to your point, two people can run through the seduction scene so fast that it seems near-immediate or like both had chosen seduced simultaneously, and, as a example, I once confused a restaurant table of friends when a friend-of-a-friend and I both got up to leave, our mutual friend (and about 3 others) asked what was happening, and she answered, "He's taking me to his place." They were confused because we'd never met before and arranged it all without ever having said a word to each other.
