07-11-2017, 09:06 PM
(07-11-2017, 06:55 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: It's funny because I think you're referring to something that today I disproved. It's funny because I think that you think what I disproved is what is true, and what I now believe is what I'm being "hasty" about lol!
As it sounds like you hastily discarded something that you finally took more slowly, I'd agree!
(07-11-2017, 06:55 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: No idea what you mean by this. Can you elaborate?
Not very usefully. Basically, addressing the beliefs that you currently have rather than the beliefs that they used to be.
(07-11-2017, 06:55 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Ok seriously, what are you talking about? lol
Only that you don't always need to play "This Is Your Life" just to make a decision tomorrow that differs from one that you made today.
(07-11-2017, 06:55 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Ok, I obviously haven't communicated well. In no way am I saying we need all our history and all our "why's" to find success. I am saying, however, that if we don't have success right now, it would do us well to ask "why?" a bit more. Not in a "why is this happening to me?
But in a seriously-searching-for-an-answer "why is this happening?
This sounds like the cause-and-effect confusion that I'd mentioned earlier. I may be misunderstanding, but you seem to be looking for a single universal answer that explains 100% of things 100% of the time. If so, 42's a popular choice.
Or, more seriously, the willingness to accept multiple contradictory answers and less than 100% of things less than 100% of the time. On most days, I choose answer #2.
