Overblown Hyperbole - DMSI V3.1-A

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Hey CatMan, the Rational Male books are good, but I'm not sure they're best going to serve you with where you are with women right now.

You have problems with trusting the nature of women. Reading the Rational Male books, although they're not wrong, they're not the books that are best going to serve you I believe. They're going to be useful for a guy who has the Disney princess version of the nature of women and needs some red pill, but I think you're already way over into the red pill with your thinking and so you don't need further reinforcement in that area. What do you think?

I think the following articles will help you: (you can only read 10 for free a month, so if you want to read more without paying you have to use a proxy or something)

These ones are on the nature of women:

-Will a nice car and good job get you laid? - http://www.girlschase.com/content/will-n...t-you-laid

-How to get comfortable with female sexuality - http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-ge...-sexuality

-Deep down, do women long for true love most of all? - http://www.girlschase.com/content/deep-d...e-most-all

-"Women are evil" - http://www.girlschase.com/content/women-are-evil

-Are all women slaves to hypergamy? - http://www.girlschase.com/content/are-al...-hypergamy

Once you're done with those, here's some that will help you with the current women from your social circle:

-How girls show interest - http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-gi...w-interest

-Why girls who like you reject you - http://www.girlschase.com/content/attain...reject-you

-Mixed signals from a girl - what these mean - http://www.girlschase.com/content/mixed-...these-mean

-Hotter women are subtler (and hook up less) - http://www.girlschase.com/content/hotter...-hook-less

-7 Reasons why all girls are naughty girls - http://www.girlschase.com/content/7-reas...ghty-girls

I've picked those ones out particularly for you and your situation. Read them slowly over a few days, let them digest, think about how they apply to your situation, and see how you feel.

I was a virgin until 25, and I know the fear that comes with losing your virginity. I lost mine because I got very drunk and my now girlfriend practically dragged me to her house and slept with me. I very nearly ducked out of meeting her that night, but I think the anti self-sabotage modules just tipped me over and it happened. I know it feels impossible, but it will happen for you too, just give it time. Read those articles. It will all start to click.

To be honest Catman, you should be reading Blackdragon's stuff and following his guides to a t. He's exactly where you could be, a super busy, super rich, late 30s guy who is not super good looking. He made a decision he was gonna master his dating life no matter what, and meticulously experimented, learning game, online dating, putting in MASSIVE action and even putting his business life on slowburn because you need to really focus on one thing to master it. The main difference I see between you guys is that it doesn't seem like he had the traumatic experiences that you have had so it was much easier for him to take the big risks and massive action to get him where he wanted. You've complained multiple times about how its hard to avoid gold diggers yet he seems to have no problem with it, he even writes an article where he experimented with gold digger game but found it pointlessly expensive. I think the key is that he uses online game to meet girls he doesnt know who don't even know how rich he is, whereas you meet girls in social circle who know you're loaded and thats gonna make things way more difficult. Anyway my point is I guarantee reading his stuff would be a TON more useful than rational male for you, his stuff got me from a year long dry spell to seeing 3 gorgeous girls at once (AM and SM also take huge credit here, but without following Blackdragon's guides running those subs alone would not have got me halfway there, ime subs are like 40-60% of the picture). And he's a lot more similar to you than me so I believe it could be even more useful to you.

I honestly believe if you continued listening to dmsi, and followed Blackdragon's advice 100% step by step, sucking up any doubts and fears and excuses that you have, you'd lose your virginity within 3 months, and have at least 2 girls on rotation (or a monogamous relationship if you prefer) within 6. But if that sounds scary to you then by all means don't take my advice