Overblown Hyperbole - DMSI V3.1-A

[Shannon]

When you look in the mirror, you don't wait for your reflection to smile before you do. You smile, and your reflection complies by smiling also. It's not "I'm going to believe no weeds into existence when there are no weeds by saying there are no weeds". It's "I now become and make myself the person who experiences a complete lack of weeds." and the weeds will find a way to disappear.

While I personally jive with most of what you're saying, Shannon, I think using weeds as an analogy (which was originally brought up by CatMan) is flawed to begin with. "The weeds will find a way to disappear" assumes the weeds are capable of disappearing without outside intervention, which very many people experience as false. Weeds by their nature multiply without outside intervention, and it is almost always by outside intervention that they disappear.

You guys are hopeless. Let me spell this out for you.

Weeds in this analogy represent circumstances you don't want in your life. When you change such that those circumstances no longer fit, you will either find that they change automatically, or that you do something that results in their change. For example... refusing to let people take advantage of you anymore, moving to where the "weeds" are not, finding a way to make the people representing "weeds" dissociate, etc.

"I now become and make myself the person who experiences a complete lack of weeds" is great, but for weeds to disappear one needs to take the appropriate and focused actions towards that end. I personally believe this is why people jump on CatMan - while CatMan is taking some action they (and sometimes I as well) believe he's not doing enough of the appropriate and focused actions towards that end and sometimes have trouble putting into words that sentiment.

This is not a suggestion, mantra or affirmation we are dealing with. It is a core program and when you run it, it becomes your reality. When you run it, you automatically tune yourself to the reality in which it is true, and it becomes true, whether you had to act or not. That's what you guys aren't getting. Your outward reality automatically adjusts to reflect your inward beliefs. Any required action will be as normal and natural as breathing once it happens, although transitioning quickly may be noticeably challenging.

When you believe at your core that the world is full of women who are out to hurt you, steal from you, get you, you tune to the reality in which that becomes true so you can deal with it and the discomfort it creates until you understand that it is your beliefs that led to this reality, and you can change them, and thus yourself, your actions and choices, and the reality outside you as a result.

As above, so below; as within, so without. Literally, your reality is the result of your core beliefs. Until CatMan changes his limiting beliefs to something that is not limiting, he will stay where he is in his experience. And he is welcome by the universe to spend forever doing it if he so chooses.

CatMan, I believe you are taking action as you say and very likely others believe that as well, but it's the taking of appropriate and focused actions towards those ends that I and probably others as well are concerned about. Meeting new people and asking women out is fine and I feel is indeed a great direction to go in; it's the other stuff like intentional physical escalation and more sexual conversations and vibe on your end that we're likely suggesting and/or recommending you increase and do more of. This can be done without consciously seeing the abundance beforehand. Do the thing, and if you get a positive response great, and if not be like "ok" and shrug your shoulders and return to the convo with others or whatever you were doing before as if it's "no biggie." This is probably what Shannon means by the following:

YOU are what you see being REFLECTED BACK TO YOU by what you perceive as "outside yourself".

When you look in the mirror, you don't wait for your reflection to smile before you do. You smile, and your reflection complies by smiling also.

No, I am being absolutely literal here.

YOU are what you see being REFLECTED BACK TO YOU by what you perceive as "outside yourself".

When you expect everyone to be a crook and believe them to be crooks, you will only have crooks in your life because only crooks will not avoid you. Why is this so hard for you guys to understand?

Without breaking Rule #4, there is a relatively famous and popular book that states (quire rightly) that what you believe is what you are. And to extend that truth and wisdom, what you are is what you create for yourself. You create your reality with your beliefs. Your beliefs result in your choice and actions and what you naturally attract or repel.

YOU CREATE YOUR REALITY WITH YOUR CHOICE OF BELIEFS.

You choose to accept X as true, and then you make your decisions as if it is true, whether or not it actually is. This leads to you acting on those choices, and thus those beliefs, again as if it is true, and again whether or not it actually is. And by doing this, you project outwardly what you are attuned to, and the result is that what is likewise attuned will not be repelled, but everything else will. The result is that you have left (and attract) what is attuned to you, which is a reflection of what you do, and that is a reflection of what you choose, and that is a reflection of what you believe.

And what you believe is...

A CHOICE.

I can't spend time trying to get you guys to understand this. I have to work. But I am being as literal as possible. Take it at face value.

What you believe to be true is what you choose to believe to be true.
What you believe to be true is what results in your beliefs.
What you believe to believe is what results in your decisions.
What you decide results in your actions and reactions.
What you do and respond with is what results in your circumstances externally.

CatMan could have chosen to understand the situation in an entirely different frame of reference. Had he done so, he could have chosen to have a much different life than he has.

UNTIL HE DOES SO, HE WILL HAVE WHAT HE HAS, BECAUSE THE SOURCE OF CREATION FOR HIS REALITY IS HIM AND WHAT HE BELIEVES TO BE TRUE.

Which is currently... "All women are a threat, and untrustworthy, and I must therefore prevent myself from being vulnerable at all costs."

CatMan likes to argue that he "can't just believe something that isn't true". Well we exist in a universe in which all possible realities exist simultaneously. It already is true, in many of those realities, that DMSI has achieved its design goal for him, and he has lost his virginity and been having sex. But he chooses to focus in this reality still where he has not achieved that because he demands that the effect be the cause, and he does this because he knows it will never be the cause, so he remains where he is and "stays safe".

CatMan, I'm rooting for you, man, but the fact is, at this point, you have two choices.

1. You stay where you are.
2. You change to allow the new reality to be.

The only difference between them is what you choose to base your point of view on in terms of beliefs. If you let DMSI do it's thing... you'll have the new reality in short order. If you don't, you will have what you have for as long as that is what you choose to have.

And you will have, always and immediately, what you want most to have. That is why ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Actions lead to outcomes. Your reality is your outcome. Your actions are the result of your decisions, which are the result of your beliefs.

Until you change your beliefs you will not change your outward reality.

I don't know how to put it any more simply or plainly.

Hope you guys understand. I have to go work now.