06-15-2017, 12:50 PM
(06-15-2017, 11:47 AM)Darwin Wrote: It feels like it's just out of the blue, I don't even notice these guys until they're in my face - it's so random that I'm too bemused about the situation to respond with aggression or fear. This time I just told the guy he needs to chill and kept walking.
In that case perhaps you're not giving enough EC. Guys can feel ignored and offended the same as if you stare them down. Middle ground is key.