(06-09-2017, 08:10 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Have you read "How to Win Friends and Influence People"?
It's what I used to start dating my hairdresser. I also matched and mirrored her facial expressions. Laughed when she laughed, was shocked when she told something shocking, etc. Very responsive, almost manic but following her not leading, except through questions. Ask lots of questions. It may not have lead to sex (yet) but that's because I started trying to be "alpha" and ruined that dynamic.
Either way, social skills start with that book.
Well, I started reading this book but it is like every time I want to continue there is something that prevents me doing so. So I almost guess this book is important and my subconscious don't want me to read it, lol.
And regarding asking questions, it's not that I didn't want, there was really NOTHING in my mind I could ask.
In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.
