05-23-2017, 04:14 PM
Maybe you're still annoyed with my last comment, but it was partial.
And when I saw your comment on Hulse' wife, I was unsure if sex is the real thing you're after.
It's value, as you stated you'd want someone who thrives as you do and you refuse to go for exchanging money for a crotch sneeze or two (I raise my glass for those two).
As Shannon said that it would be us the users to define which one we find attractive or whatever you call it.
But with your situation, it's like sniping a 2 miles headshot, or worse you don't have any target around even if your conscious observation says you do.
What I meant by saying you failed to draw the very quality in other aspect where it is supposedly an edge could also mean you unconsciously drive the women away by the value you hold.
I believe you're aware that words in any interaction could only convey a small chunk of intended meaning, while other aspects we judge and measure them often beyond our conscious comprehension.
And man, you're financially capable to go around the states or even another countries, why not give it a shot?
I would say these 2 points, ever thought that women might perceive you (consciously or unconsciously) as a "too good to be true" kind of guy? And going to a different type of environment where you probably will find the answer.
And when I saw your comment on Hulse' wife, I was unsure if sex is the real thing you're after.
It's value, as you stated you'd want someone who thrives as you do and you refuse to go for exchanging money for a crotch sneeze or two (I raise my glass for those two).
As Shannon said that it would be us the users to define which one we find attractive or whatever you call it.
But with your situation, it's like sniping a 2 miles headshot, or worse you don't have any target around even if your conscious observation says you do.
What I meant by saying you failed to draw the very quality in other aspect where it is supposedly an edge could also mean you unconsciously drive the women away by the value you hold.
I believe you're aware that words in any interaction could only convey a small chunk of intended meaning, while other aspects we judge and measure them often beyond our conscious comprehension.
And man, you're financially capable to go around the states or even another countries, why not give it a shot?
I would say these 2 points, ever thought that women might perceive you (consciously or unconsciously) as a "too good to be true" kind of guy? And going to a different type of environment where you probably will find the answer.
What a fool cannot learn he laughs at, thinking that by his laughter he shows superiority instead of latent idiocy ~MC
ENFP-2 ; US + TLAM >> DMSI 3.1
ENFP-2 ; US + TLAM >> DMSI 3.1