05-18-2017, 01:54 PM
About the "gay" and "platonic friend" comments, I have a slightly different perception.
Women ae to react to what I'd categorize as threats. If you're not a threat youre not reacted to. Like wild animals. If an animal becomes used and comfortable around humans you can do basically anything and you're not a threat. And so you're ignored and they do what they want. But if a predator comes around those same animals their instincts kick in and they react as appropriate and as they're programmed to.
Same with humans. If a nonthreatening man comes around they're ignored basically and they do as they please. If a threat/predator comes around them their instincts kick in and they begin to react.
It may not be.a physical threat. It's the nature of the interaction. Attraction and sexuality are usually more primal than consciously driven. More primal instincts and actions tend to cause the noiceable reactions.
That's all just my opinion of course. I could be flat wrong, but I've always seemed to do better when I tapped into my more primal and raw instincts when dealing with women.
Women ae to react to what I'd categorize as threats. If you're not a threat youre not reacted to. Like wild animals. If an animal becomes used and comfortable around humans you can do basically anything and you're not a threat. And so you're ignored and they do what they want. But if a predator comes around those same animals their instincts kick in and they react as appropriate and as they're programmed to.
Same with humans. If a nonthreatening man comes around they're ignored basically and they do as they please. If a threat/predator comes around them their instincts kick in and they begin to react.
It may not be.a physical threat. It's the nature of the interaction. Attraction and sexuality are usually more primal than consciously driven. More primal instincts and actions tend to cause the noiceable reactions.
That's all just my opinion of course. I could be flat wrong, but I've always seemed to do better when I tapped into my more primal and raw instincts when dealing with women.