Overblown Hyperbole - DMSI V3.1-A

[TrojanMagician]

In my experience, it's a rare "hottie" that you encounter who is not those things. I've dated all types, and worked with all types. I'll take an average looking woman I can trust over a woman who is hellbent on making me miserable any day.

Maybe they know something you don't... indeed.

Well that's a little disappointing to hear, but I'll take your word for it. You do have the experience. Although admittedly I'm not sure I get what qualifies as a "hottie" vs average woman. I've seen some women people would describe as average, but I find very attractive.

You tend to learn to appreciate a woman for qualities that actually matter when you deal with all of them. The hot ones are being barraged with offers 24/7, and they are almost always being offered someone or something they could classify as "better than you". This usually results in what I call "BBD girls" (the ones who eternally chase after the bigger better deal)...

The ironic thing is, it's the guys who think only hot women are good enough who cause this phenomenon. They're the ones who barrage them with compliments, attention, ego stroking, let them get away with whatever, encourage/enable them to cheat, offer them options that remove consequences, etc. etc. etc. Basically they are enabling and teaching hot women to act the way they do.

It's all about the social status of having/***** a hot woman for those guys. Not the woman herself. Which results in not only all these options, but emotional and sometimes mental destruction of these women as a result.

Making them usually severely damaged emotionally and sometimes mentally.

The end result is that 9 times out of 10, if not more... you can't trust them. They have no concept of the value of an actual relationship. They end up being shallow, only interested in how big your dick/muscles/tires/engine/bank account is and what you can do for them. The moment you're not the bigger better deal... they're on to the next guy.

I don't care what other guys think of me or my girlfriend. I am self validating. But I do care if spending my time with my girlfriend results in me being happy or miserable.

In time and with enough awareness and experience, a smart man will choose his own happiness over validation from other guys or ***** "hot women" every time. Those who disagree... well, that just means they're either not aware enough yet or not experienced enough yet.

You can find a good woman who is hot, sure, but they're about as common as unicorns in my experience.

You are welcome to whatever floats your boat. I don't have time, energy or patience to waste on ***** and drama. I'll take being alone for the rest of my life over being miserable, suspicious of what my girlfriend is doing when I'm not around, etc. And if a woman who isn't perfect can offer me what makes me genuinely happy without turning me off physically... maybe that will work.

In the end, it boils down to what makes YOU genuinely happy. Spending all your time and money and energy chasing validation from other guys and "hot women" to get that validation... I have much better and more important things to do with my time.

I don't need validation OR women. I validate myself, and women are a part of my life and world at my pleasure. And it is my choice to be genuinely happy above all things.

You know I've long suspected this about hot women. But lack of experience has left me kind of blind to what goes on out there. I guess I was hoping that it was more along the lines of me being cynical and I'd be proven wrong in the future.

Same.

I never wanted to believe the things I read on The Red Pill, but these posts seem to confirm it. I guess I'll keep looking for that balance of attractive and humble. It sucks but many of us cannot help our attraction for physically attractive women. There were studies than showed dopamine (the chemical that makes you happy) literally being released when a man spots an attractive women. From personal experience I know it is such a satisfying feeling when you have sex with a hot woman, or have the attraction of a hot woman. It feels like you won the mating game, as its such an awesome yet primal feeling.

It does suck that we are such slaves to our attraction triggers ,but I feel like it's possible to get a balance between the two. Humble and beautiful. That's why I'm just going to keep running AYP. I'll let my subconscious handle it...