05-12-2017, 01:24 AM
(05-11-2017, 10:34 PM)CatMan Wrote: I like Mark Manson, actually. I've read some of his book, I think it was called Models, something like that? Was interesting. It was some time ago, you can quickly reach information overload in that genre, so that may have been why I didn't finish it. I do remember it being something I enjoyed reading, though.
I have to say, at the risk of sounding arrogant, I do have a lot going for myself. I SHOULD have zero issues with women at all. Remember how all 3 women who know about me being a virgin are/were shocked to hear that, and I'm still certain none actually believe me and think it's some line, lol.
I've had a terrible past, building very bad beliefs, both about myself and women. I know that full well, I knew that would be a big stumbling block when trying subs. I won't go into the details of any of the stories again, they aren't important, or relevant, and this isn't a pity party anyway. Without being able to change that past, but breaking away from it, seems to require real solid results in the opposite direction to be able to consider that past inaccurate and able to dislodge from. I'm not sure how to do that, besides DMSI executing for me. For now, maybe the clearing and healing will continue burrowing and getting me to that point. Which is why I want to stick with Version A until I fully execute for at least 6 months straight, as I originally planned. I switched to Version B for Shannon to evaluate for 1 week, then went back to Version A happily.
Mark is one of the few people I would recommend people to continue following. I highly recommend finishing Models, as well as picking up his latest book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck". I have also recommended to you before "Fundamentals of Female Dynamics" by Michael Knight. All of which I think you would enjoy as well as have use of for reading. None of these are the normal "PUA readings".
Not arrogant at all.
I'm not sure where Shannon wrote it, I tried to find it but was unable. But he wrote something of getting an understanding of the part of the unconscious mind which is resisting. Try to change perspective, get an understanding of why it does resist. And then simply explain that this is something you want to do
Then like 4K wrote. I would recommend grabbing a pen and paper while listening to classical music, or simply music that's highly emotional for you (which often is classical music). That makes it easier to communicate with your subconscious. Now I want you to write down everything that goes on in your head, but start with this question: Why am I resisting?
Then just write down it all. There you hopefully would have all the reasons you are resisting. Now get in touch with that. Accept it, and write out that you still want your subconscious to stop resisting, and follow the instructions DMSI gives. As this is a change that is very important to you.
That's the best thing you can do in order to get your unconscious to cooperate (that I know of). But there is also a lot of conscious changes you can make, such as your self-image and beliefs. In your unconscious, there's a vision/self-image of yourself. This is how you "are supposed to be", and your unconscious will make everything it can to preserve that image. So if you have a view of yourself as a successful person, guess what it will try to achieve?
And it works the opposite way as well if you have a bad view of yourself.
You have a bad view of yourself with women, causing your subC to resist/prevent changes in that area. It doesn't want to go into the unknown. It wants to keep itself secure, hence it dislikes change. It doesn't matter if it's a change for the better, it's a change and therefore possibly harmful. Now some parts of this might be wrong. But I think the major concepts are true. Shannon, feel free to chime in if you want to.
But if success with women is something you want to achieve, I think you should take the time to also start cooperating with DMSI as much as possible on the conscious level
