05-08-2017, 07:42 AM
(05-08-2017, 07:01 AM)Illumi Wrote: Hey Duke! I only wanted to hear your opinion about i how view love and friendship at the moment and wanted you to critique it. I never even condsiderd your post as an attack, i wanted to hear your opinion my side of the story i guess. About the intj thing im not labling myself, its just the closest thing so far that could resemble me. Also im not that consered about the alpha beta thing i only used the termonoligy for the lack of better choice of words. Also im not going around thinking i should manipulate everyone, its my own way to backlash at the world because im not fully able to understand it. Also im i dont believe in pua and what not!
Well im not that good at articulating so i should have wrote that post a little differently i guess? :S but yeah thanks for the responce anyhows
About only betas finding love, i meant that it would be easier for a beta to find love. Since im no longer beta i have not yet found the type of love an alpha would have so i would have a higher chance finding it as a beta.
Hey Illumi, I'm glad that you didn't perceive what I said as malicious or an attack. The thing with writing is, what I want to convey and how I mean to say it, doesn't always come across.
I also know that English isn't your first language, and so much of what you meant and how I construe that meaning can be mixed.
For instance, I now understand what you meant about being beta and finding love.
And I agree, you shouldn't necessarily settle when it comes to love. But, and I mean this in the best way possible, I think you should keep your options open as well.
There are a bevy of women out there who are intelligent and fun.
A lot of who I am today is because of the relationships that I had and grew from. The best parts of me can't be found on a forum, but, everything I learned about accepting people for who they are, allowing someone to get close, and sharing parts of myself, happened throughout my previous relationships.
This is why I consider myself such a fortunate person. I was very lucky to have had the people in my life that I had.
I always hope that everyone gets to experience something similar in their lives.
I also know that where you live, culturally, things are different. But, people are generally the same.
I hope things work out between you and the redhead. It seems like you really like her. Perhaps you should give it an honest attempt and see where it goes.
I also wanted to apologize, as I feel by not understanding you, I responded harshly to your previous post.
Find your happiness brother...
