I very much enjoyed reading your last post Duke, especially your views regarding sex.
I'd like to make a request. If you are in the mood and/or up for it, I'd like to hear your views regarding love.
Some of the random thoughts/questions that went through my mind after reading your post were:
-what's your definition of love right now in this moment ?
-has your idea of it changed over time?
-now that you view women as you do, do you think you could love them (I know how silly this question sounds, but I think you get where I coming from)?
-you have a great relationship with K, to what degree does your definition apply to her?
-what are your views on love as it relates to marriage (a societal norm)?
-do you want one woman in your life that you can love and that loves you?
-how important is trust in your long term relationships, if you indeed want one?
Those are just a few questions that arose in my mind. I have a lot more incubating, but I think you get the general idea.
I'd be interested in hearing any and all thoughts and opinions that you have on the subject.
EDIT:
If I could distill my questions down, I think want I really want to know is your perspective on love, as it applies to societal construct and whether or not, or to what degree, it is used as a tool of control.
As you become more surgically intimate with your reptilian brain, do you feel a distance between your prior (programmed?) belief, or understanding of love, and your current belief, if there is indeed a difference?
We all think we know what love is, but do we really? Maybe, at the level we are at, it's just a notion we cling to, to feel safe and secure.
I don't know....
I'd like to make a request. If you are in the mood and/or up for it, I'd like to hear your views regarding love.
Some of the random thoughts/questions that went through my mind after reading your post were:
-what's your definition of love right now in this moment ?
-has your idea of it changed over time?
-now that you view women as you do, do you think you could love them (I know how silly this question sounds, but I think you get where I coming from)?
-you have a great relationship with K, to what degree does your definition apply to her?
-what are your views on love as it relates to marriage (a societal norm)?
-do you want one woman in your life that you can love and that loves you?
-how important is trust in your long term relationships, if you indeed want one?
Those are just a few questions that arose in my mind. I have a lot more incubating, but I think you get the general idea.
I'd be interested in hearing any and all thoughts and opinions that you have on the subject.
EDIT:
If I could distill my questions down, I think want I really want to know is your perspective on love, as it applies to societal construct and whether or not, or to what degree, it is used as a tool of control.
As you become more surgically intimate with your reptilian brain, do you feel a distance between your prior (programmed?) belief, or understanding of love, and your current belief, if there is indeed a difference?
We all think we know what love is, but do we really? Maybe, at the level we are at, it's just a notion we cling to, to feel safe and secure.
I don't know....