DMSI 3.1 - The Journal

[Shawn]

I agree. I had the exact same experience as Anderson with the russian I went out witrh on V-Day. She texted me a few days later saying she had been thinking about me and stuff. Asked if I wanted to go for coffee.

Now, a bit of backstory: I had tried a day 2 with her and she said no. I ignored the logistics issues and chaosvrgn told me I needed to be more flexible. So I took his advice and ended up not getting a coffee date either.

So, my point is, in these situations, it seems like there's no right way to play it. If you don't take her bait, you're being "inflexible" if you be flexible, you're taking her bait. wtf.

Well, THAT sucks. I think I should simply try to create a situation with both of us only before she sets something up with all the people around.