DMSI 3.1 - The Journal

[Blink]

She just gave you the direct line to FWB.

In case to need to reach out to her late at night...

To me she's being as obvious as she can without saying it. The ball is in your court.

Test my theory.

Well, that's all fine, but how do I play the ball from here on? That's my problem and that's where I loose it every time - the communication thing and verbal escalation.

Pardon me, but I don't see you as having a problem here. I see you as just receiving a gift from heaven.

Communication and escalation is you making a phone call to her some night SOON (strike while the iron is hot, she's still in the mood, and someone else hasn't taken your place ) and telling her to get her sweet @ss over to your place. She's good to go IMO, there is no need to escalate further.

Take the lead and Make the call...

Or don't...

But remember; this is about as easy as it gets, you will regret not phoning, and she's not going to wait forever.

I'd like to add to this that you mentioned that you don't communicate with each other that often anyway. So what have you got to lose? An acquaintance at most? Just invite her over for a movie and wine. She'll know what that means. When you're on a couch beside her in that setting, it's just a matter of putting your arm around her and taking it from there

Btw, I fully get the fear behind all this. It's tough! But would you rather take a risk of putting yourself out there, or regretting the lack of action afterwards? The risk doesn't seem that high either.