04-19-2017, 07:06 PM
The thing is, what you're saying about her just wanting validation is indeed a possibility. Doesn't mean the aura isn't working on her, just means she's not the best target. Now, granted, in the situation you just outlined, it does sound like she's just acting goofy and not worth the trouble. I'm "waxing theory," as you put it.
The overall point I'm trying to make is -- when you see an IOI, you don't have to go all in and slap her ass or grope her. Instead, you throw the equivalent of the jab in boxing. An ambiguous, slightly sexually charged comment to feel out her mood.
For example, in this situation, I would've said something along the lines of: "Now this is the best sight I've seen all night."
If she turns around, enraged and goes, "WHAT?!!!" acting like she's so offended, I'd point to something else -- the television, crowds of laughing people. "The energy in this room, everyone happy. Best sight I've seen all night."
If she turns around, smirk on her face, all giggly and goes, "what?" I'd shrug and say, "I call it as I see it."
Verbal jab. Then, as she gives you more and more signs, you escalate. That's why learning body language is good. If she starts staring at your lips, or putting gloss on her lips when it's unnecessary, you know that some part of her wants to be kissed. Doesn't necessarily mean you just grab her and kiss her. But, you can maybe start touching her arm while talking.
On v2.something, I bagged the hottest chick I've ever had in my life. The signal? We were by the pool talking and she kept licking her lips at me. Strong sexual signal and I went for it. That could've ended badly. She was married with children. Just because she was thinking about banging me (and really wanted to do it) doesn't necessarily mean she WOULD do it. If I were playing smart, I would've started throwing those verbal jabs.
So yes, there's a risk of rejection and failure, but that's the risk we must endure to play the game. Hence, why some people are going MGTOW and saying screwing it.
The overall point I'm trying to make is -- when you see an IOI, you don't have to go all in and slap her ass or grope her. Instead, you throw the equivalent of the jab in boxing. An ambiguous, slightly sexually charged comment to feel out her mood.
For example, in this situation, I would've said something along the lines of: "Now this is the best sight I've seen all night."
If she turns around, enraged and goes, "WHAT?!!!" acting like she's so offended, I'd point to something else -- the television, crowds of laughing people. "The energy in this room, everyone happy. Best sight I've seen all night."
If she turns around, smirk on her face, all giggly and goes, "what?" I'd shrug and say, "I call it as I see it."
Verbal jab. Then, as she gives you more and more signs, you escalate. That's why learning body language is good. If she starts staring at your lips, or putting gloss on her lips when it's unnecessary, you know that some part of her wants to be kissed. Doesn't necessarily mean you just grab her and kiss her. But, you can maybe start touching her arm while talking.
On v2.something, I bagged the hottest chick I've ever had in my life. The signal? We were by the pool talking and she kept licking her lips at me. Strong sexual signal and I went for it. That could've ended badly. She was married with children. Just because she was thinking about banging me (and really wanted to do it) doesn't necessarily mean she WOULD do it. If I were playing smart, I would've started throwing those verbal jabs.
So yes, there's a risk of rejection and failure, but that's the risk we must endure to play the game. Hence, why some people are going MGTOW and saying screwing it.