04-01-2017, 08:03 PM
Day 30
Currently listening on repeat: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQLWuWVut4M
My last post didn't go into a lot of details, and now that I had a few hours to shut off, I feel like I can put some more detail into the last few days.
To add some context to Wednesday, the friend who called me and wanted to treat me to lunch, I'll call her A. I've known her for a few years. She was in the early dating stages of her current relationship when we first met, and later on it got serious between her boyfriend and her. I see her pretty infrequently, and the last few times prior to Wednesday's lunch, her boyfriend was with her.
Anyway, she called me out of the blue on Wednesday and said she was close to where I was and wanted to grab lunch, her treat. Over lunch she got into the details of her relationship, and then she mentioned in passing how her boyfriend was uncomfortable with her having lunch with me.
Again, there was something about that, that just triggered this feeling within me where I just came to the conclusion of, well, if he's going to be uncomfortable, why the hell am I holding back? Her boyfriend and I aren't friends, we're acquaintances and I have no allegiances to him. That's when I told her what I did.
Anyway, we finished lunch, she picked up the tab and we walked for a bit. Before parting ways I held her close to me, and she stayed in my arms for a long time. And then I kissed her. We're seeing each other again either next week or the week after, depending on how my schedule looks.
Wednesday night I had drinks with C. That was interesting also. I told her I would meet her at one of my spots, because one of my boys was going to pass through. This particular spot I would frequent with my boy D often, because he's tight with the bartender there. She's a really attractive model / actress (every hot bartender in NYC is either an actress or model). I'll call her H, because she apparently has a role in my new DMSI influenced life now.
Anyway, My boy is really tight with H, and I know her, we banter, but I'm not tight with her like that.
So as I'm walking to the spot I see C enter, and I trail right behind her. So as she's scoping, she turns around to see me standing there, and she gives me a really big hug. I then see H, and H gives me this really hostile look. I brush it off, and ask C what she wants, and she says the same I'm having, so I order two ciders. H gets two bottles and literally rips the caps off the bottles. Even that, I was like wtf. Anyway, she gives me the bottles and I take a seat at one of the bar stools with C and we just get into catching up.
About 15 minutes later my boy D rolls in, says what's up, and grabs a seat at the bar and orders himself a beer, away from C and I. Anyway, H starts interrogating him about who C is and why she's there with me. She was being loud enough that I could hear her. Halfway through my time with C, D texts me and tells me that H is catching feelings about me being there with C.
Anyway, D leaves at some point, stops by to where I'm sitting before he goes, and C and I carry on. I was with her C almost two hours. At some point in the conversation she tells me that I have a fan club, amongst the group of women that I know C from. She says that she's also one of my biggest fans. I brush it off. We then talk about going away to a beach resort for a weekend together once the weather warms up. It starts getting later into the night, and I decide to cut it and head home as I was tired. I go to close out the tab and H gives me the cold shoulder. I pay and am about to go back to where I was sitting to grab my jacket, except that C already has it in her hands and is holding it for me.
C and I take the train together, and as I'm getting off on my stop, she comes in and goes for a long, intimate hug.
Thursday I was hanging with my boy D again, and two of my other boys were in town for a work conference. We ended up grabbing dinner at a spot in Hell's Kitchen, and the waitress we had was stunning. She'd look at me every time she'd pass by. Eventually we had a group of 3 girls and a guy take the table next to ours. The girl I found most attractive in that table kept locking eyes with me. I was tempted to step to her, but I reminded myself that Thursday night was to chill with my boys.
Anyway, one of my boys picks up the tab for dinner and as we start to leave, our waitress practically slams into me. Her lips just barely missed pressing against mine. barely. She was flustered afterwards and kept apologizing. I laughed it off and left.
Next we ended up at my favorite doughnut shop in Chelsea for dessert. The girl working the register was this really cute Asian girl. She was adorable. So I bantered with her for a bit and she gave us free donuts and discounted my overall order price also.
Thursday I had also heard from someone I hadn't spoken to in almost 6 months. She was also someone I knew for a few years, who had moved out of NYC in the last year. Anyway, we touched base briefly on Thursday, and on Friday night she called me and we had a chance to catch up. She was planning to come back to NYC and wanted to see if I would be around. I asked her when she was coming, and after she told me her dates, I said I would be in town. She then asked me if I could take time off while she was in the city because she wanted to spend the majority of her time with me.
I agreed to that as well, and asked her if she wanted to just stay with me. She was pretty enthused about the idea and said she'd be more than happy to do anything I wanted while she stayed with me. I jokingly said that she'd have to cook for me and give me sexual favors. She said she was happy to do both.
This morning I get a call from K. She ended up waking me with her call, and then told me that she wanted me to come over as she was in the mood to cook for me. Honestly, my first thought was that she was trolling me for April Fools - she's gotten me good in the past. Anyway, I get out of bed and get dressed, I didn't even bother showering, and headed over to her place. She lives 20 minutes from me, give or take.
Sure enough, she had a pretty amazing breakfast spread laid out for me. So we had breakfast together, and after I was done she just came over to where I was sitting and straddled herself on me.
After we had sex, I just lounged in bed with her until the early afternoon, at which point I came home.
I spent the rest of my day at home, just zoning to music. Today was 10 days of side B. I'm going to stay on B for another 10 days or so before I switch back to A for another run.
I'm seeing Y again later this week, and there are a few other women I met late last week that I am going to be seeing soon. The list of women is ever expanding.
Today I finally did get a whiff of exhaustion. I'm gonna spend the rest of my weekend crashing in and just zone to good music and recharge some.
Currently listening on repeat: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQLWuWVut4M
My last post didn't go into a lot of details, and now that I had a few hours to shut off, I feel like I can put some more detail into the last few days.
To add some context to Wednesday, the friend who called me and wanted to treat me to lunch, I'll call her A. I've known her for a few years. She was in the early dating stages of her current relationship when we first met, and later on it got serious between her boyfriend and her. I see her pretty infrequently, and the last few times prior to Wednesday's lunch, her boyfriend was with her.
Anyway, she called me out of the blue on Wednesday and said she was close to where I was and wanted to grab lunch, her treat. Over lunch she got into the details of her relationship, and then she mentioned in passing how her boyfriend was uncomfortable with her having lunch with me.
Again, there was something about that, that just triggered this feeling within me where I just came to the conclusion of, well, if he's going to be uncomfortable, why the hell am I holding back? Her boyfriend and I aren't friends, we're acquaintances and I have no allegiances to him. That's when I told her what I did.
Anyway, we finished lunch, she picked up the tab and we walked for a bit. Before parting ways I held her close to me, and she stayed in my arms for a long time. And then I kissed her. We're seeing each other again either next week or the week after, depending on how my schedule looks.
Wednesday night I had drinks with C. That was interesting also. I told her I would meet her at one of my spots, because one of my boys was going to pass through. This particular spot I would frequent with my boy D often, because he's tight with the bartender there. She's a really attractive model / actress (every hot bartender in NYC is either an actress or model). I'll call her H, because she apparently has a role in my new DMSI influenced life now.
Anyway, My boy is really tight with H, and I know her, we banter, but I'm not tight with her like that.
So as I'm walking to the spot I see C enter, and I trail right behind her. So as she's scoping, she turns around to see me standing there, and she gives me a really big hug. I then see H, and H gives me this really hostile look. I brush it off, and ask C what she wants, and she says the same I'm having, so I order two ciders. H gets two bottles and literally rips the caps off the bottles. Even that, I was like wtf. Anyway, she gives me the bottles and I take a seat at one of the bar stools with C and we just get into catching up.
About 15 minutes later my boy D rolls in, says what's up, and grabs a seat at the bar and orders himself a beer, away from C and I. Anyway, H starts interrogating him about who C is and why she's there with me. She was being loud enough that I could hear her. Halfway through my time with C, D texts me and tells me that H is catching feelings about me being there with C.
Anyway, D leaves at some point, stops by to where I'm sitting before he goes, and C and I carry on. I was with her C almost two hours. At some point in the conversation she tells me that I have a fan club, amongst the group of women that I know C from. She says that she's also one of my biggest fans. I brush it off. We then talk about going away to a beach resort for a weekend together once the weather warms up. It starts getting later into the night, and I decide to cut it and head home as I was tired. I go to close out the tab and H gives me the cold shoulder. I pay and am about to go back to where I was sitting to grab my jacket, except that C already has it in her hands and is holding it for me.
C and I take the train together, and as I'm getting off on my stop, she comes in and goes for a long, intimate hug.
Thursday I was hanging with my boy D again, and two of my other boys were in town for a work conference. We ended up grabbing dinner at a spot in Hell's Kitchen, and the waitress we had was stunning. She'd look at me every time she'd pass by. Eventually we had a group of 3 girls and a guy take the table next to ours. The girl I found most attractive in that table kept locking eyes with me. I was tempted to step to her, but I reminded myself that Thursday night was to chill with my boys.
Anyway, one of my boys picks up the tab for dinner and as we start to leave, our waitress practically slams into me. Her lips just barely missed pressing against mine. barely. She was flustered afterwards and kept apologizing. I laughed it off and left.
Next we ended up at my favorite doughnut shop in Chelsea for dessert. The girl working the register was this really cute Asian girl. She was adorable. So I bantered with her for a bit and she gave us free donuts and discounted my overall order price also.
Thursday I had also heard from someone I hadn't spoken to in almost 6 months. She was also someone I knew for a few years, who had moved out of NYC in the last year. Anyway, we touched base briefly on Thursday, and on Friday night she called me and we had a chance to catch up. She was planning to come back to NYC and wanted to see if I would be around. I asked her when she was coming, and after she told me her dates, I said I would be in town. She then asked me if I could take time off while she was in the city because she wanted to spend the majority of her time with me.
I agreed to that as well, and asked her if she wanted to just stay with me. She was pretty enthused about the idea and said she'd be more than happy to do anything I wanted while she stayed with me. I jokingly said that she'd have to cook for me and give me sexual favors. She said she was happy to do both.
This morning I get a call from K. She ended up waking me with her call, and then told me that she wanted me to come over as she was in the mood to cook for me. Honestly, my first thought was that she was trolling me for April Fools - she's gotten me good in the past. Anyway, I get out of bed and get dressed, I didn't even bother showering, and headed over to her place. She lives 20 minutes from me, give or take.
Sure enough, she had a pretty amazing breakfast spread laid out for me. So we had breakfast together, and after I was done she just came over to where I was sitting and straddled herself on me.
After we had sex, I just lounged in bed with her until the early afternoon, at which point I came home.
I spent the rest of my day at home, just zoning to music. Today was 10 days of side B. I'm going to stay on B for another 10 days or so before I switch back to A for another run.
I'm seeing Y again later this week, and there are a few other women I met late last week that I am going to be seeing soon. The list of women is ever expanding.
Today I finally did get a whiff of exhaustion. I'm gonna spend the rest of my weekend crashing in and just zone to good music and recharge some.
