I just read the first and last parts might read the rest later.
I just want to say that, sometimes women feel like this too.
You know that whole that men seem "above" us too good for us, hard for us to attract, whatever. I know some guys think that women NEVER go through this, but some of us do.
I AM seeing some good things from the subs, but also I want to say, ok 2 years is a long time, but with this sub the thread starts with, dude, you've done it for 5 days!
I read about the hooker suggestion.
I wouldn't want to do that either. Simply because I want anyone I have sex with to be really attracted to me. Not PAID to fake it. Even though there have been dry spells at times, I think I'd rather never have sex again than have sex with a guy who wasn't into me. Even if by into me it was only this strong lust as in ooh she's hot I want to have sex with HER. But not just eh, she'll do. No thanks! But that's just my personal views on the matter. I don't judge people who have sex with hookers.
Not all of us look like goddesses either. I'm curvy, I've never had an athletic body either. I probably never will at this stage. Some guys like my curves, but I hardly look like a gym bunny and I probably never will. We don't all look like that. Just like we don't all have massive boobs and blonde hair!
I get called hot or beautiful sometimes by online guys, but I am a woman next door type, we don't all look like supermodels. Oh BOY do I WISH I DID. But I'm a petite, curvy, brunette MILF (with no kids, by personal choice) who ranges between a C cup and a D cup and I'm coming to accept that, that that's OK. But we don't all look like actresses and porno stars.
I've also known women going through what you are going through.
But, well I don't really know what to say except i hope things turn around for you.
But please don't think every single woman just snaps her fingers and gets whatever guy she wants, we DON'T.
And a lot of women, including me, also have a lot of guys who ONLY want to have sex with us when we want to have a relationship, so that's a real issue for some of us. I guess it's hard for guys to identify with that who haven't had and really really want sex.
I don't really have much to say just I hope things get better for you OP. That is all. (((hugs)))
I just want to say that, sometimes women feel like this too.
You know that whole that men seem "above" us too good for us, hard for us to attract, whatever. I know some guys think that women NEVER go through this, but some of us do.
I AM seeing some good things from the subs, but also I want to say, ok 2 years is a long time, but with this sub the thread starts with, dude, you've done it for 5 days!
I read about the hooker suggestion.
I wouldn't want to do that either. Simply because I want anyone I have sex with to be really attracted to me. Not PAID to fake it. Even though there have been dry spells at times, I think I'd rather never have sex again than have sex with a guy who wasn't into me. Even if by into me it was only this strong lust as in ooh she's hot I want to have sex with HER. But not just eh, she'll do. No thanks! But that's just my personal views on the matter. I don't judge people who have sex with hookers.
Not all of us look like goddesses either. I'm curvy, I've never had an athletic body either. I probably never will at this stage. Some guys like my curves, but I hardly look like a gym bunny and I probably never will. We don't all look like that. Just like we don't all have massive boobs and blonde hair!
I get called hot or beautiful sometimes by online guys, but I am a woman next door type, we don't all look like supermodels. Oh BOY do I WISH I DID. But I'm a petite, curvy, brunette MILF (with no kids, by personal choice) who ranges between a C cup and a D cup and I'm coming to accept that, that that's OK. But we don't all look like actresses and porno stars.
I've also known women going through what you are going through.
But, well I don't really know what to say except i hope things turn around for you.
But please don't think every single woman just snaps her fingers and gets whatever guy she wants, we DON'T.
And a lot of women, including me, also have a lot of guys who ONLY want to have sex with us when we want to have a relationship, so that's a real issue for some of us. I guess it's hard for guys to identify with that who haven't had and really really want sex.
I don't really have much to say just I hope things get better for you OP. That is all. (((hugs)))
