Darkness, I think that's enough for now. I know Catman doesn't want to hear any more of it.
But i'll leave a thought that comes into my head that applies. Certain advice makes sense in some ways, but it's hard to really apply for somebody who has been traumatized and has alot of fear.
I can speak from experience about that, some of the trauma and such i'd had made me unable to apply alot of things.. and interestingly E2 gave me the most improved results with girls over programs such as AM and WM. I mentioned it to Shannon and he said it makes sense if alot of my issues have come from certain trauma and such.
It may sound weird, but in some cases like this the 'man up' type thing actually doesn't help but understanding and caring may help more. I already know you'll disagree with this. But I had more results from doing coaching in healing methods with women who took the more gentle caring approach than I had with the "come on man up, what the fuck" approach from guys.
But i'll leave a thought that comes into my head that applies. Certain advice makes sense in some ways, but it's hard to really apply for somebody who has been traumatized and has alot of fear.
I can speak from experience about that, some of the trauma and such i'd had made me unable to apply alot of things.. and interestingly E2 gave me the most improved results with girls over programs such as AM and WM. I mentioned it to Shannon and he said it makes sense if alot of my issues have come from certain trauma and such.
It may sound weird, but in some cases like this the 'man up' type thing actually doesn't help but understanding and caring may help more. I already know you'll disagree with this. But I had more results from doing coaching in healing methods with women who took the more gentle caring approach than I had with the "come on man up, what the fuck" approach from guys.
