(03-10-2017, 05:15 AM)Duke.Togo Wrote: Darkness, respectfully, perhaps you should start your own thread about what you think Catman should or shouldn't do, instead of blasting it repeatedly throughout Catman's journal.
I've read 4 pages of what you think is best for Catman. Last time I checked, he's an adult, he can come to his own conclusions. I don't know why you made it your crusade to suddenly save Catman from what you perceive to be his own fallacies, based on posts he writes on a forum.
But after numerous members have asked you already to dial it back a notch, maybe it's time.
You don't walk in his shoes, so I would cool off with the Personal Jesus complex (if I violated rule 4, I will change the term) and let the man post his own thoughts.
this is where suggestions on what he should or should not do. Should go.
This isn't a crusade. This a diametricly different response as opposed to the default one. "I'm sorry that's terrible" "it's okay catman"
No where in my post have I negated his adulthood, respect enough to speak to him like a man. Not like he's a broken child, frail and delicate.
I am not trying to save him if you read the past pages, in one them, it states this is about catman helping himself. I don't need to cool off. The man is 35. Be realistic.And entrepreneur ain't nothing weak about that .
Thinking in the same as others is what self development is about or achieved.
Not to be so the last time I checked.
Take read at all the posts and you'll see a hive mentality. Great volume of likes on his most poeticized suffrage post. And yet nobody offers pragmatic approach, just excess chumminess. Installing in him the same hope that's kept a virgin this long.
