03-07-2017, 05:41 AM
Im running an ayp so i wanted to just stay away from posting in the forum so i can just run the program in peace... but i just cant resist when catman is being bashed when all he's done is be helpful to everyone here. and he gets flak for it constantly.
I dont post much anymore for the same reason catman gives sporadic updates,
it feels like arguing with everyone on here insisting their opinions are the one true path instead of reading people's different adventures, sometimes contributing one's own, enjoying life and other's perspectives of life.
i hope catman doesnt mind but i can tell you from conversing with him that he has done approaching and pua. that aint for him, he's said that and i understand it. not everyone is cutout for it. not every man wants to approaching nonstop for 2 years. or sometimes the payoff is not worth the herculean effort of game.
i agree with shannon. catman will not go to escorts and that is his prerogative whether you think he's wrong. its not about the sex for him. there is truth to sex is just sex but read what swisston said again.
by what authority do i speak about such things? first hand experience.
everything you've requested catman to do, i did. in spades.
i learned a lot about sex through hiring pros but it did not fill the void of relationships and intimacy. im lonelier than ever even though i know how wonderful sex feels.
i also learned to approach and get dates through daygame but the measly reward isn't worth the effort of constantly gaming. there are other things in life than just seduction.
do i wish i hadnt done the experiences ive had? no. i am pragmatic enough to understand that i have sexual needs.
i'm also the type to think hard work = success, which is not true in dating and relationships.
but do i long for intimacy? of course. i am human after all and humans are social creatures that requires pair bonding with females as dictated by our biology.
and even though its scientifically just chemicals in the brain, it doesnt change the fact that i get lonely without it.
hence the point of those wishing to discuss why everyone should just drop it with catman trying to get escorts: its not about sex and on some level (i know this first hand) its more than just sex.
godspeed catman. i hope you and everyone succeed in this version, if not the next, of dmsi.
I dont post much anymore for the same reason catman gives sporadic updates,
it feels like arguing with everyone on here insisting their opinions are the one true path instead of reading people's different adventures, sometimes contributing one's own, enjoying life and other's perspectives of life.
i hope catman doesnt mind but i can tell you from conversing with him that he has done approaching and pua. that aint for him, he's said that and i understand it. not everyone is cutout for it. not every man wants to approaching nonstop for 2 years. or sometimes the payoff is not worth the herculean effort of game.
i agree with shannon. catman will not go to escorts and that is his prerogative whether you think he's wrong. its not about the sex for him. there is truth to sex is just sex but read what swisston said again.
by what authority do i speak about such things? first hand experience.
everything you've requested catman to do, i did. in spades.
i learned a lot about sex through hiring pros but it did not fill the void of relationships and intimacy. im lonelier than ever even though i know how wonderful sex feels.
i also learned to approach and get dates through daygame but the measly reward isn't worth the effort of constantly gaming. there are other things in life than just seduction.
do i wish i hadnt done the experiences ive had? no. i am pragmatic enough to understand that i have sexual needs.
i'm also the type to think hard work = success, which is not true in dating and relationships.
but do i long for intimacy? of course. i am human after all and humans are social creatures that requires pair bonding with females as dictated by our biology.
and even though its scientifically just chemicals in the brain, it doesnt change the fact that i get lonely without it.
hence the point of those wishing to discuss why everyone should just drop it with catman trying to get escorts: its not about sex and on some level (i know this first hand) its more than just sex.
godspeed catman. i hope you and everyone succeed in this version, if not the next, of dmsi.
