03-06-2017, 11:31 PM
(03-06-2017, 10:31 PM)CatMan Wrote: Hello Shannon. I haven't had any dates, or sex, or girlfriends or kisses since coming here...and seriously don't see how I'm in a better standing with women since joining years ago...so I suppose I fail to see all this "progress" I've made. But I expected such a response. And yes, I guess we'll have to wait and see if anything develops, just like before. I do at times grow tired of always waiting and seeing, and nothing developing.
And Darkness and Sarge, I have no interest in escorts. That could've been an option a very long time ago, even high end ones, porn stars, even B or C level actresses. I see no value in that, paying for sex, I view it as degrading to me. Not my thing. I simply want normal relationships and the ability to get normal sex, like normal men. Being forced to pay for sexual access literally, would make me feel terrible about myself. If others enjoy escorts, rock on. I don't have interest, personally.
I agree with how I've become in posts at times, I don't like it either. At times, it feels like the chicken and the egg, I suppose that is what lead you to suggest the escort idea. And in fact, the 3 women that I told I was a virgin, none believed it. I still talk to one often, and I'm positive she still doesn't believe it and felt it was a line or something. So I don't think I'm throwing off some signal related to that, it must be something different causing issues.
There's value, you gain experience and sexual comfort. There's nothing degrading to you. You got to drop that looking down in it, it is sex, just sex. Your not gonna have relationship. The fact that you view of sex with a prostitute is degrading to you shows your discomfort with sex. How is it that you can say you have no interest but you have sexual urges for women, yet you forgo the real thing for pornography or masterbation? You NEED to gain sexual reference point.
Money for sex? That's not bad. You paid $500 for AM6 in the hope of being more attractive, i.e. for SEX. Another $500 for SM3 in hope for....... SEX.
Pheromones you bought to be attractive enough for SEX.
DMSI..... For SEX.
No matter how you put, you HAVE in some form PAID for SEX.
Stop denying yourself sex. Waiting for women has not made them fuck you.
Not paying for sex has not made fuckable, only miserable.
Stop rationalizing, get you some pussy, wear a jimmy, and bring some ED pills just in case.
Porn ain't the answer
Masterbation ain't the answer
Abstaining ain't the answer
Subs ain't it
Pheros ain't it
Fleshlight ain't the answer
PUSSY is. You CAN fuck prostitutes AND seduce women. It's not binary.
Am not cosigning the misery you yourself FORCE unto yourself bc you refuse to get what you can.
And I say this respectfully and without mocking you, face your reality,man.
