01-30-2017, 11:50 AM
I sense that happening too, Shannon. That's why I need to demonstrate that I have options. For no reason but for my own personal sake of avoiding oneitis.
But just to clarify, she's the one who told me that I'm the man and I'm supposed to do the chasing. I do not believe that statement at all, considering the programI'm running. I Even Told Her I Don't Believe it. I'm glad you called out that devaluation of myself I am committing. I had an inkling I was doing it but am so not self-aware that it helps to get another opinion. Totally not sure how to proceed, though. Except to pursue other women or just wait for women to pursue me as per the goals of the program.
Btw, she's an ENTP.
But just to clarify, she's the one who told me that I'm the man and I'm supposed to do the chasing. I do not believe that statement at all, considering the programI'm running. I Even Told Her I Don't Believe it. I'm glad you called out that devaluation of myself I am committing. I had an inkling I was doing it but am so not self-aware that it helps to get another opinion. Totally not sure how to proceed, though. Except to pursue other women or just wait for women to pursue me as per the goals of the program.
Btw, she's an ENTP.
